Oh, the mythical French woman, she rides her bike and dines on wine and cheese, she doesn’t care about the calories because her Frenchness will keep her thin. Bullshit. Sexist and kind of xenophobic bullshit.
The French feminists like Julia Kristeva remain some of the most influential feminist writers, yet we ignore the strides they made and continue to uphold French women as role models of flawless femininity.Â French women, like all women are complex and not a super slender monolith.
There’s a whole array of self-help books out there aimed at women who want to read their way to that Parisienne je ne sais quoi; books like (paraphrased titles): French Women Are Never Lonely, French Women Never Say Die, French Women Have Perfect Marriages and Children. That strange wave of French How To Guides all started with that viral diet book French Women Don’t Get Fat by Mireille Guiliano. That book and the idea surrounding it have lead women to believe that French mademoiselles are just effortlessly thin. It’s hogwash.Â It’s not effortless the way we’ve been lead to believe. French women, like all women are subjected to a damaging culture that leads them to put tremendous stock in having the right kind of body.
BBC’s Joanna Robertson wrote a piece entitled “The Perils of Being Fat, Female and French” which exposes what should be obvious: the attitude toward female bodies in France is quite like that in the US and the UK.Â Robertson spoke toÂ Sonia Feertchak, the editor-in-chief ofÂ L’Encyclo des Filles, a health and beauty site for teenage girls about the issue, Feerchak provided even more interesting insight into body culture in France.
She confirms that, duh, French women get fat:
“There is simply no mystery about it. Of course French women grow fat, but the fact is they daren’t, and some will even starve themselves because in this society to be a fat female is to be a failure.”
And are punished if they do get fat:
“Fat women are seen as stupid. Their lives must be out-of-control, they are judged ugly, weird losers,”
Women world wide are still wasting their time contemplating their image in the mirror:
“Women have come so far in France – we have a political voice, good childcare, access to work – but instead of being more confident we are increasingly obsessed with our weight and shape.”
We have come far, but we have a long way to go:
“Coco Chanel freed us from the corset more than 80 years ago – but we have fallen for a mental one instead – a silhouette of supposed perfection that is unattainable and leads to eating disorders and misery.Â The tyranny of the silhouette, we call it – but it is also a kind of dream because it represents total success.”
French women are just like us! It’s a shame because, wouldn’t it be nice if there was a country where everyone was healthy and happy and had no eating disorders or body image hang ups? Maybe one day women will be seen as more than their bodies.
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