Comments on: 7 signs it’s time to walk away. http://www.blisstree.com/articles/7-signs-its-time-to-walk-away-45/ Family, Health, Home and Lifestyles Sat, 05 Dec 2009 04:20:30 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Noreen http://www.blisstree.com/articles/7-signs-its-time-to-walk-away-45/comment-page-1/#comment-38544 Noreen Mon, 13 Oct 2008 05:49:26 +0000 http://www.datingdames.com/7-signs-its-time-to-walk-away/#comment-38544 run and don't look back. run and don’t look back.

]]> By: Kikolani - Poetry | Photography | Blogging Tips http://www.blisstree.com/articles/7-signs-its-time-to-walk-away-45/comment-page-1/#comment-38535 Kikolani - Poetry | Photography | Blogging Tips Sat, 11 Oct 2008 01:06:42 +0000 http://www.datingdames.com/7-signs-its-time-to-walk-away/#comment-38535 I agree, these are definite warning signs. But on the exclusivity part, I think that is fine - falling for someone and knowing you want to be exclusive with them fairly quickly. But definitely not cool to be super jealous. When I was doing the online dating, I experienced both. A guy who, after the first meeting, started accusing me (like I was doing something wrong) about not being available to go out with him. And then the guy I am engaged to, who is absolutely wonderful, not jealous at all, and asked me to marry him less than a month after we met. :) ~ Kristi I agree, these are definite warning signs. But on the exclusivity part, I think that is fine – falling for someone and knowing you want to be exclusive with them fairly quickly. But definitely not cool to be super jealous. When I was doing the online dating, I experienced both. A guy who, after the first meeting, started accusing me (like I was doing something wrong) about not being available to go out with him. And then the guy I am engaged to, who is absolutely wonderful, not jealous at all, and asked me to marry him less than a month after we met. :)

~ Kristi

]]> By: Lara Kulpa http://www.blisstree.com/articles/7-signs-its-time-to-walk-away-45/comment-page-1/#comment-38987 Lara Kulpa Thu, 09 Oct 2008 23:36:41 +0000 http://www.datingdames.com/7-signs-its-time-to-walk-away/#comment-38987 Jay, you're such a sweetie. :) Thank you. I actually met him on Yahoo Personals. (You'd think it'd scare me off from now on, but alas, it hasn't.) And no, at first he wasn't this bad. I chalked a lot of it up to his insecurity and lack of a real social life... I also had that, "Oh, he's making me pay for the damage done to him by other women... as soon as he sees I'm not them, he'll change," mentality, and well, I was wrong. It might've been why he was like that, but certainly wasn't up for changing. I don't know why I hung on so long. Maybe it's because it was the first "relationship" I'd had in many (seriously, many) years, and there were things that I would mistake for love/caring/interest that were really control/insult/humiliation tactics. Kat, my friends and family all wonder why I didn't kick him in the nuts over it. I actually broke a guy's nose once at a bar for calling me that, and he was a stranger! LOL (No lie, but I had my dad and the fire department there backing me up, er, pulling me off the guy.) I've never been one to allow anyone to humiliate me or berate me... I really can't explain why this time, it was different. I just know that I'm oddly thankful for the experience, because I sure as hell won't let it happen again. Jay, you’re such a sweetie. :) Thank you.

I actually met him on Yahoo Personals. (You’d think it’d scare me off from now on, but alas, it hasn’t.) And no, at first he wasn’t this bad. I chalked a lot of it up to his insecurity and lack of a real social life… I also had that, “Oh, he’s making me pay for the damage done to him by other women… as soon as he sees I’m not them, he’ll change,” mentality, and well, I was wrong. It might’ve been why he was like that, but certainly wasn’t up for changing.

I don’t know why I hung on so long. Maybe it’s because it was the first “relationship” I’d had in many (seriously, many) years, and there were things that I would mistake for love/caring/interest that were really control/insult/humiliation tactics.

Kat, my friends and family all wonder why I didn’t kick him in the nuts over it. I actually broke a guy’s nose once at a bar for calling me that, and he was a stranger! LOL (No lie, but I had my dad and the fire department there backing me up, er, pulling me off the guy.)

I’ve never been one to allow anyone to humiliate me or berate me… I really can’t explain why this time, it was different. I just know that I’m oddly thankful for the experience, because I sure as hell won’t let it happen again.

]]> By: Kat Wilder http://www.blisstree.com/articles/7-signs-its-time-to-walk-away-45/comment-page-1/#comment-39053 Kat Wilder Thu, 09 Oct 2008 13:08:20 +0000 http://www.datingdames.com/7-signs-its-time-to-walk-away/#comment-39053 I think man and women need to pay attention to what the other is saying early on, as people pretty much reveal themselves ... but we're too busy projecting a lot of things in our own minds to listen. But if anyone ever called me a name, like "fat bitch," he'd be gone in a NY second. There is no way that "fat bitch" can ever be a nice name. Really! I think man and women need to pay attention to what the other is saying early on, as people pretty much reveal themselves … but we’re too busy projecting a lot of things in our own minds to listen.

But if anyone ever called me a name, like “fat bitch,” he’d be gone in a NY second. There is no way that “fat bitch” can ever be a nice name. Really!

]]> By: Jay http://www.blisstree.com/articles/7-signs-its-time-to-walk-away-45/comment-page-1/#comment-39126 Jay Thu, 09 Oct 2008 01:19:34 +0000 http://www.datingdames.com/7-signs-its-time-to-walk-away/#comment-39126 (Sorry, accidentally hit submit...) Valentines day is a whole world of pain and I wish it did not exist. I have no capacity to live up to the expectations. Love is complicated enough without it. It's particularly awkward if you don't have a good feeling for the current status of your relationship. Good luck with everything, I mean it sincerely. (Sorry, accidentally hit submit…)

Valentines day is a whole world of pain and I wish it did not exist. I have no capacity to live up to the expectations. Love is complicated enough without it. It’s particularly awkward if you don’t have a good feeling for the current status of your relationship.

Good luck with everything, I mean it sincerely.

]]> By: Jay http://www.blisstree.com/articles/7-signs-its-time-to-walk-away-45/comment-page-1/#comment-39124 Jay Thu, 09 Oct 2008 01:16:21 +0000 http://www.datingdames.com/7-signs-its-time-to-walk-away/#comment-39124 That guy sounds like a real jerk, Laura. You were right to leave. I wouldn't have stayed with him even a few days, let alone 5 months. Calling you names, particularly that, I would probably dump them on the spot. Of course I understand teasing, but that sounds way beyond teasing. Hating friends, not wanting to go places with you. Seriously, where did you meet this guy and why did you ever date him even a second time? I assume he wasn't always like that? I am guilty of calling a little too often, although never at work. Sometimes I am a little to needy/clingy, but it goes hand in hand to going to parties - it's not a relationship if you don't do things togeather. Sometimes that is a difficult line to walk. So cut the rest of us guys some slack, even if this guy was a loser and doesn't warrant any. :) Money is really tricky and a lot of guys worry about it. If you are too willing, a lot of women will end up thinking you are trying to buy theif affection (or something else). Then if you don't spend any money, you can get it that way too. Apart from developing telepathy, I still don't have it figured it out. Worse, it seems every woman is different. Very confusing, I will not lie :) Valentines day is a whole world of pain and I wish it did not exist. I have no capacity to live up to the expectations That guy sounds like a real jerk, Laura. You were right to leave. I wouldn’t have stayed with him even a few days, let alone 5 months.

Calling you names, particularly that, I would probably dump them on the spot. Of course I understand teasing, but that sounds way beyond teasing. Hating friends, not wanting to go places with you.

Seriously, where did you meet this guy and why did you ever date him even a second time? I assume he wasn’t always like that?

I am guilty of calling a little too often, although never at work. Sometimes I am a little to needy/clingy, but it goes hand in hand to going to parties – it’s not a relationship if you don’t do things togeather. Sometimes that is a difficult line to walk. So cut the rest of us guys some slack, even if this guy was a loser and doesn’t warrant any. :)

Money is really tricky and a lot of guys worry about it. If you are too willing, a lot of women will end up thinking you are trying to buy theif affection (or something else). Then if you don’t spend any money, you can get it that way too. Apart from developing telepathy, I still don’t have it figured it out. Worse, it seems every woman is different. Very confusing, I will not lie :)

Valentines day is a whole world of pain and I wish it did not exist. I have no capacity to live up to the expectations

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