Comments on: Are You Waiting For Him To Make Decisions? http://www.blisstree.com/articles/are-you-waiting-for-him-to-make-decisions/ Family, Health, Home and Lifestyles Fri, 18 Dec 2009 15:46:22 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Ibrahim Donzo http://www.blisstree.com/articles/are-you-waiting-for-him-to-make-decisions/comment-page-1/#comment-500018 Ibrahim Donzo Wed, 07 Oct 2009 10:07:50 +0000 http://www.blisstree.com/?p=98320#comment-500018 I am a single, young and loving, caring gentleman. I am searchin for girl who is honest and industrious, I am student at the University. Please write me notified me, of my respond. I am a single, young and loving, caring gentleman. I am searchin for girl who is honest and industrious, I am student at the University. Please write me notified me, of my respond.

]]> By: Miss Brittany Dow http://www.blisstree.com/articles/are-you-waiting-for-him-to-make-decisions/comment-page-1/#comment-350133 Miss Brittany Dow Wed, 08 Jul 2009 17:57:43 +0000 http://www.blisstree.com/?p=98320#comment-350133 This is such a valid issue regarding relationships. I was in a three year relationship with a guy that always kept me waiting, waiting for him to call, waiting for him to make plans, and waiting for him to think about our future. Finally, it got to the point where I had to bring it up (three years later) and he said 'I never saw us getting married'. WTF?!? I was so hurt, and mad at myself and him for dragging the relationship on that long. Word of advice, never wait that long. Luckily I was only 23 and moved on pretty fast, I embraced my new found freedom. Now, at 25 I am with an amazing guy who sees his future with me, including marriage. We have decided to move in together, something we're both excited about. However, nothing is perfect. Now I find myself waiting for him to realize his potential and figure out what he wants to do with his life. He's doing landscaping, but that's not his 'dream'. He's in desperate need of direction, and I don't want to 'push' or 'nag' him. We discuss his future, but he usually gets defensive bc he feels I'm talking 'down' to him when I'm not. This is something we have to work through, and I'm sure we will. Sometimes waiting is inevitable, and hopefully will result in a positive future for us both. This is such a valid issue regarding relationships. I was in a three year relationship with a guy that always kept me waiting, waiting for him to call, waiting for him to make plans, and waiting for him to think about our future. Finally, it got to the point where I had to bring it up (three years later) and he said ‘I never saw us getting married’. WTF?!? I was so hurt, and mad at myself and him for dragging the relationship on that long. Word of advice, never wait that long.

Luckily I was only 23 and moved on pretty fast, I embraced my new found freedom. Now, at 25 I am with an amazing guy who sees his future with me, including marriage. We have decided to move in together, something we’re both excited about.

However, nothing is perfect. Now I find myself waiting for him to realize his potential and figure out what he wants to do with his life. He’s doing landscaping, but that’s not his ‘dream’. He’s in desperate need of direction, and I don’t want to ‘push’ or ‘nag’ him. We discuss his future, but he usually gets defensive bc he feels I’m talking ‘down’ to him when I’m not. This is something we have to work through, and I’m sure we will. Sometimes waiting is inevitable, and hopefully will result in a positive future for us both.

]]> By: Barista http://www.blisstree.com/articles/are-you-waiting-for-him-to-make-decisions/comment-page-1/#comment-348351 Barista Wed, 08 Jul 2009 01:18:31 +0000 http://www.blisstree.com/?p=98320#comment-348351 I'm not even waiting for marriage, yet I still have trouble pushing the guy I'm "dating" beyond what we have. I guess being single at 32 makes things harder...especially after nearly 3 years without a serious relationship. I'm waiting for him to make the moves toward something more serious, but I probably shouldn't be.... I’m not even waiting for marriage, yet I still have trouble pushing the guy I’m “dating” beyond what we have. I guess being single at 32 makes things harder…especially after nearly 3 years without a serious relationship. I’m waiting for him to make the moves toward something more serious, but I probably shouldn’t be….

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