Breaking Down the Barriers of Communication
March 17, 2009 by Aly Walansky
Filed under Relationships
OK…lets just say you have this “friend”…and sometimes you hook up, and sometimes you don’t. Sometimes you fight, sometimes you get along. Neither one of you have ANY idea what the other one is thinking, and so, you basically spend half of your “relationship” in an awkward impasse of things left unsaid.
The sad truth is, most couples (and especially must “hook up friends”) don’t really TALK. And they are especially unlikely to talk about sex. Whether you are scared or ashamed or embarrassed, it just becomes the giant elephant in the room.
The fact of the matter, though, is that the lack of communication and the sexual frustration that results can ruin an otherwise sound relationship.
How do I advise you fix this??? How about…playing a game! It’s a return to the sand box – playing together melts inhibitions and lets the good times roll.
Check out the Sexy Slang game, it is a combination of pictionary-esque drawing games and charades, but uses 500 “sexy slang” terms. (From “reverse cowgirl” to “litte man in the boat.”) Sure, it may not solve all your relationship problems – but you’ll have a lot of fun in the meantime!
Image: SexySlang.com
