Christopher DeGroot’s Parents Plead Guilty
November 22, 2007 by Kristina Chew, PhD
Filed under Health
Yesterday I wrote about what happened to 4-year-old Scarlett and a commenter posted about Shellay Ward—–and here is another sad, and terrible, story. Nicolaas Dirk DeGroot and Agnes Elizabeth DeGroot of Albany (Oregon) have pleaded guilty in the death of their son, Christopher Aire DeGroot. The DeGroots had been indicted on charges of murder, according to the November 21st Democrat Herald:
However, they pleaded guilty “by way of Alford” Friday to the lesser charge of criminally negligent homicide. (Pleading guilty by way of Alford allows people to assert their innocence but agree that a judge or jury might find them guilty if the case went to trial.)
The couple was accused of starting a fire May 14, 2006, at their Albany apartment, where they lived with their son, Christopher Aire DeGroot, 19. Investigators said at the time that the parents left their son, who had severe autism, inside the apartment with the door and windows locked. Neighbors called firefighters and Christopher was taken to a Portland hospital, where he died five days later.
The DeGroots are free on bail.
This Way of Life has a webpage that records the names and stories of autistic persons who have been murdered.
At the risk of belaboring the “thankful theme,” but I have to say it: I am beyond thankful to have our family, and most of all my two lovely, loving guys. Very, always thankful.















They’re free on bail for locking their son in an appartment and burning him alive??? I think I might vomit.
This young man endured at least six days of terror brought on by those parents actions. Outrageous that they were out on bail, disgusting, and like Leanne says above, sickening.
When’s the sentencing?
And who is the prosecution? I’m only a state away. I think that they need some EDUCATION about autism, not to mention basic human decency.
Maybe they were simply afraid that the jury would be full of people like you — too quick to judge without looking at all of the facts.
I have personally read hundreds and hundreds of pages of discovery on this case I can tell you these were dedicated parents who did *everything* in their power to help their son, despite their hardships.
Then this tragedy happens and almost *no one* cares to look at the facts as they go on a witch hunt.
There but for the grace of God go you. Maybe you shouldn’t be so quick to judge. You all make me sick.
It’s astonishing that in this day and age,people who read a blurb in the newspaper think they know the whole story. Shame on you who pass judgment and condemn the parents in this case without knowing the whole story. It was proved they did not start the fire and the autism advocate/expert in this case testified that their decision to lock the doors was an “incremental and reasoned response” to their circumstances, and that they engaged in excellent parenting practices. This was a tragic accident and the real crime occured when the grieving parents were charged with a crime and locked up.
Thanks for posting here and would much appreciate any news sources that you have.
Albany couple sentenced to six months in jail for death of autistic son
http://www.democratherald.com/articles/2008/02/09/news/local/2loc01_jail.txt
This is a question not specific to this case, but related–Oregon has a law barring leaving minors home alone or unattended in a potentially hazardous situation under the chronological age of 11 and I believe other states have similar; does anyone know if there is relevant similar statute regarding developmental age for those with cognitive disability?
Gosh I love how this got buried.
Wonder who set the wunderfire if it wasnt dear mommy and daddy. The timing is too coincidental for me to believe it wasn’t them without, like, evidence. And 6 months is BS. If there is proof they didnt do it, as the drive by nameless person is so convinced, then why not fight it?
As Laura Tisonic (sp?) said, NO ONE acheives sainthood by having an autistic child. I’m not impressed by “dedicated” parents who are so “dedicated” that they kill their children or leave them in situations where they could easily be killed.
Another report from the Associated Press (February 17)—an excerpt:
does this state provide respite care?i now have 6 autistic kids my 2 yr old just got dianoised with it a month ago i have 3 that are at risk for running away and never in my life could i imagine leaving them locked inside my house even for a second by themselves.i cant believe they got only 6 months in jail.just think of that poor boys pain and suffering he went thru.and all they worried about their cats.And no matter what or how long you have been a parent of a autistic child you naturally have a response when they get hurt i know i do evey little fall im right there right away no matter what so their behavior is very odd having no emotions to what just happened to their son i would have been freaking out.and to those of you siding with the parents dont forget the pain that boy felt as he was inside that burning apt and having no idea what was happening and appartently he did know what danger was cause he was hitting the windows to get out of there.i am sure there were some sort of programs out there that could have helped them but did they even bother checking into them.it may have been a accident but one of them should have stayed behind to watch him.cause with autistic people you just never know from one day to the next what will happen.
“Over 2000 children are currently identified on waitlists for Family Support services.”
http://www.oregonddcoalition.org/?q=node/46
Before the Staley Trust lawsuit, the wait list was 15+ years for intensive or adult services…now it is 7-10.
I’m not saying that the DeGroots should have left their son alone in a locked house, on the contrary. This is just a note that respite or support services can take a long time to obtain even after application.
“…A Southeast Portland woman who left her 11-year-old severely autistic son alone at home so she could go to a local bar was convicted of criminal mistreatment Thursday because a fire broke out in her absence.
Melinda R. MacCullen was sentenced to probation, which is the presumptive sentence for such a crime…”
http://blog.oregonlive.com/breakingnews/2008/03/_a_southeast_portland_woman.html
I am the parent in this link, and I must say I am astonished not only at the lack of integrity of the news media but also at the willingness of people to make such harsh assumptions about others based on 2 sentences they read on the internet.
I did not know that this news story even existed, let alone was I ever asked a single question regarding the fire in my home — by the media or even the police for that matter.
My couch caught on fire accidentally, from an incense that had fallen between the cushions and smoldered for an unknown amount of time.
I am the only care provider for my son, and prior to the fire I was rushed to the hospital via ambulance with severe pneumonia. Against doctors advice I left the hospital because had no one to care for my son…even to help clean or cook or anything. I hadn’t eaten for 2 weeks because I was so ill. I was starving (literally), exhausted and in a fair amount of pain. My son had fallen asleep & I made the *BAD* decision to go to the restaurant next door to my house to get some food. I downed two coffees and a whiskey instead of taking the hydrocodone narcotic prescribed to me.
I could see my apartment from the restaurant and I think that gave me a false sense of security about going over there while he was sleeping. That changed really fast when I saw fire trucks pulling up and ran over to find firemen kicking my door in. It is a parents worst nightmare, to say the least — and I can only thank god that no one was hurt.
Needless to say, it is a year and a half later, and my son and I are happy and healthy. He is very well cared for and I have won hands down all family court decisions in my favor. DHS was the first to admit that they do not believe my son is abused or otherwise neglected…and in fact that I am a responsible, informed and beyond adequate caregiver.
ONE bad choice, lightening strikes and the next thing you know you are posted in response to a couple accused of purposefully burning their child to death? It is asinine and irresponsible, to say the least.
However, I do appreciate being able to say what actually happened, so thanks for reading.