Comments on: Enough, already with Poor Behavior and Daycare http://www.blisstree.com/articles/enough-already-with-poor-behavior-and-daycare-155/ Family, Health, Home and Lifestyles Sun, 06 Dec 2009 00:04:38 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Career and Kids » More on the daycare study http://www.blisstree.com/articles/enough-already-with-poor-behavior-and-daycare-155/comment-page-1/#comment-90720 Career and Kids » More on the daycare study Sat, 31 Mar 2007 16:36:07 +0000 http://www.careerandkids.com/enough-already-with-poor-behavior-and-daycare/#comment-90720 [...] Are Alright -What the daycare study really found” is a balanced, and, careful analysis of the study heard round the world this week about daycare being correlated to bad behavior in [...] [...] Are Alright -What the daycare study really found” is a balanced, and, careful analysis of the study heard round the world this week about daycare being correlated to bad behavior in [...]

]]> By: Karen http://www.blisstree.com/articles/enough-already-with-poor-behavior-and-daycare-155/comment-page-1/#comment-90709 Karen Thu, 29 Mar 2007 18:04:19 +0000 http://www.careerandkids.com/enough-already-with-poor-behavior-and-daycare/#comment-90709 All I can say is I Totally Agree. All I can say is I Totally Agree.

]]> By: carolyn http://www.blisstree.com/articles/enough-already-with-poor-behavior-and-daycare-155/comment-page-1/#comment-90706 carolyn Wed, 28 Mar 2007 21:20:12 +0000 http://www.careerandkids.com/enough-already-with-poor-behavior-and-daycare/#comment-90706 Both of mine went to child care while I worked. That's the way it had to be. Luckily, I had them in a good church day care and they thrived. Now, they are both in middle school, make decent grades, are active in sports and music and have friends. They dont clean their rooms as well or as often as I want, the 14 year old has a sassy mouth and they watch too much TV. Would they be any different if they had stayed home with me? I don;t have a clue. Both of mine went to child care while I worked. That’s the way it had to be. Luckily, I had them in a good church day care and they thrived. Now, they are both in middle school, make decent grades, are active in sports and music and have friends. They dont clean their rooms as well or as often as I want, the 14 year old has a sassy mouth and they watch too much TV. Would they be any different if they had stayed home with me? I don;t have a clue.

]]> By: Larisa http://www.blisstree.com/articles/enough-already-with-poor-behavior-and-daycare-155/comment-page-1/#comment-90705 Larisa Wed, 28 Mar 2007 20:23:15 +0000 http://www.careerandkids.com/enough-already-with-poor-behavior-and-daycare/#comment-90705 It all boils down to the balance of things. I've always worked, tried to spend the most time with my kids that I could, etc. I think my kids turned out pretty good (so far). I also had friends who stayed home and hated it and it showed in their kids. You have to do whats best for your own family. It all boils down to the balance of things. I’ve always worked, tried to spend the most time with my kids that I could, etc. I think my kids turned out pretty good (so far).
I also had friends who stayed home and hated it and it showed in their kids.
You have to do whats best for your own family.

]]> By: CLG http://www.blisstree.com/articles/enough-already-with-poor-behavior-and-daycare-155/comment-page-1/#comment-90704 CLG Wed, 28 Mar 2007 19:48:07 +0000 http://www.careerandkids.com/enough-already-with-poor-behavior-and-daycare/#comment-90704 I posted about it <a href="http://clg1994.blogspot.com/2007/03/breaking-news-daycare-children-are.html">here.</a> How can they get away with the "disruptive behavior" headlines when the the behavior is all "within normal limits?" I posted about it here.

How can they get away with the “disruptive behavior” headlines when the the behavior is all “within normal limits?”

]]> By: Daycare Dilemma? Not! at Triple Venti http://www.blisstree.com/articles/enough-already-with-poor-behavior-and-daycare-155/comment-page-1/#comment-90703 Daycare Dilemma? Not! at Triple Venti Wed, 28 Mar 2007 19:19:36 +0000 http://www.careerandkids.com/enough-already-with-poor-behavior-and-daycare/#comment-90703 [...] over without much ballyhoo.  Then I started reading some articles like at Career and Kids, where the frustration of yet another study on the subject shows.  And I guess I can understand that since the way these articles tend to slant things, it always [...] [...] over without much ballyhoo.  Then I started reading some articles like at Career and Kids, where the frustration of yet another study on the subject shows.  And I guess I can understand that since the way these articles tend to slant things, it always [...]

]]> By: Selfmademom http://www.blisstree.com/articles/enough-already-with-poor-behavior-and-daycare-155/comment-page-1/#comment-90702 Selfmademom Wed, 28 Mar 2007 18:54:36 +0000 http://www.careerandkids.com/enough-already-with-poor-behavior-and-daycare/#comment-90702 Well, you know I agree! This is not front page news. At least not front page news that I care to read. Well, you know I agree! This is not front page news. At least not front page news that I care to read.

]]> By: flybunny http://www.blisstree.com/articles/enough-already-with-poor-behavior-and-daycare-155/comment-page-1/#comment-90701 flybunny Wed, 28 Mar 2007 17:26:18 +0000 http://www.careerandkids.com/enough-already-with-poor-behavior-and-daycare/#comment-90701 I have avoided reading this article so far and think I will continue. Both of the girls stayed home with their Dad their for their first years but this one will have to go to daycare at 3 months unless we win the lottery or schools starting paying their teachers 200% more. I hate that the media continues to increase the divide among women and the choices that they make. It is beyond maddening, I find it infuriating. I have avoided reading this article so far and think I will continue. Both of the girls stayed home with their Dad their for their first years but this one will have to go to daycare at 3 months unless we win the lottery or schools starting paying their teachers 200% more.

I hate that the media continues to increase the divide among women and the choices that they make. It is beyond maddening, I find it infuriating.

]]> By: Slartibartfast http://www.blisstree.com/articles/enough-already-with-poor-behavior-and-daycare-155/comment-page-1/#comment-90700 Slartibartfast Wed, 28 Mar 2007 17:12:07 +0000 http://www.careerandkids.com/enough-already-with-poor-behavior-and-daycare/#comment-90700 Here's a little parental secret (that you already know): About 70% of the way "kids turn out" is due to nothing other than the dispositions and smarts that God gave them. We parents would like to say we "made" our children the way they are, but this isn't the case, for the most part. There are too many wonderful adults who had horrible childhoods for this not to be true. Don't EVER let a parental guilt trip get to you. Here’s a little parental secret (that you already know):

About 70% of the way “kids turn out” is due to nothing other than the dispositions and smarts that God gave them. We parents would like to say we “made” our children the way they are, but this isn’t the case, for the most part. There are too many wonderful adults who had horrible childhoods for this not to be true.

Don’t EVER let a parental guilt trip get to you.

]]> By: Brian (dad to 3) http://www.blisstree.com/articles/enough-already-with-poor-behavior-and-daycare-155/comment-page-1/#comment-90699 Brian (dad to 3) Wed, 28 Mar 2007 16:44:30 +0000 http://www.careerandkids.com/enough-already-with-poor-behavior-and-daycare/#comment-90699 If I had a choice, I'd stay home. But I can't, so there's not much point in worrying about it. (besides, I turned out OK, I think). Going back to Google reader now. If I had a choice, I’d stay home. But I can’t, so there’s not much point in worrying about it. (besides, I turned out OK, I think). Going back to Google reader now.

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