Comments on: Fact or Feelings? How Do You Process Things?

By: Ginger

Ginger — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 14:04:45 +0000

I’m not sure how I was 30 years ago, but I developed into someone who doesn’t respond quickly because it is the only safe way to be. I have definitely become the slow processor. I definitely need to evaluate every confrontation, weigh in on it in my head and see the possible ramifications before i can speak.
But then I am married to the ultimate manipulator.

By: Marye Audet

Marye Audet — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 13:35:16 +0000

ROri, I do think it is one of the benefits, learning and adapting to new ways of thinking and doing things.

By: Rori Raye

Rori Raye — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 05:17:04 +0000

Whoa – yes – I tend to be all over everything, over-achieving, over-thinking, and then using my own Tools and simply letting it all roll – my very favorite. I notice that as soon as I let go and just flow – my husband steps-up. Amazing. Like personal growth gifts from being married to someone who’s not like me, but loves me anyway.

By: Marye Audet

Marye Audet — Tue, 07 Oct 2008 03:42:18 +0000

Yeah, Lisa..sometimes I feel like I am married to spock…..It isn’t logical…

By: Lisa

Lisa — Mon, 06 Oct 2008 15:02:18 +0000

I am definitely a feeling person. I can be very rash. My husband is always pointing out reasons why things might not work.