Help the elderly celebrate Halloween
Halloween is coming up, and, it seems like the celebrations get bigger and bigger each year.
But, Halloween can also be a stressful time, especially for the elderly who live at home alone, or, for those with dementia.
Noise, people coming to the door, and, the possibility of pranks make it important to prepare your loved one for trick or treat time.
Some tips:
1. Remind your loved one when Halloween is near.
When you don’t have children at home, the “holidays” that were once a part of you life, aren’t always on your mind anymore.
2. Pitch in and help with a few decorations if they want to get in the spirit that way.
Ask what kinds of decorations are preferred, some people may prefer “fall” themed decor while others get in the spirit with witches, and, ghosts. Making Halloween crafts together might also be a good way to spend time with your loved one. But, be sure to schedule some time after Halloween to take down and store the decorations.
3. Ask if they’d like to be home on trick or treat night.
Some people may enjoy the kids coming to the door, while other people don’t. Remind them that usually, a well lit porch indicates someone is home to give out candy, and, they’ll get knocks on the door. Also, discuss what to do if the candy runs out, and, there are still people coming to the door.
Depending on their level of independence, consider having someone at home with them that night to assist with the visitors, or, invite them to your house for an early dinner, and, an evening of enjoying the children in their costumes.
If you live far from your elderly relative, perhaps a neighbor or someone from church would be willing to keep them company, or, invite them over for the festivities. But, be sure to issue a reminder to double check locks and outdoor possessions if they are going to be away from home that night, just in case.
4. Choose Halloween candy carefully.
Many elderly people enjoy giving out candy to trick or treaters, but, remember that any leftover candy will remain in the house with them. Consider any health issues such as diabetes when choosing candy and other treats.
Also, Halloween candy can be expensive. If you are able, offer to assist an elderly relative or neighbor with their candy purchase, especially if they live in a neighborhood with lots of children.
5. Offer to help with a costume.
Church groups or senior citizen centers may have Halloween parties. Make sure your loved one has something festive to wear if they desire, even if it’s just a shirt or a hat.
With a little planning and attention to safety, Halloween can be fun for children of all ages.
While my mother doesn’t have any “issues” with candy per se, she still prefers to not have bags and bags of candy left over after Halloween is over. So instead she gives dimes to the kids instead. Sure when you break it down a dime is probably more than one or even two “fun size” pieces of candy from a large bag if you get it on sale, but there is no “waste” from excessive purchases of candy.
Having a roll (or two depending on the volume of kids in the area) is also a good idea to have “just in case” even you are giving out candy, just in case your candy supply doesn’t quite make it through the evening.
This is wonderful advice – quite practical – and issues that many may overlook! If anyone wants to get into the spirit of Hallowe’en, they can visit the HALLOWE’EN FAN CLUB – young or not-as-young alike!