Holiday Shopping Together
December 17, 2007 by Kerri Aldrich
Filed under Relationships
Like many of you, we’re smack in the middle of holiday preparations, and that includes getting all of the shopping done for the friends and family on our list.
When we first were married, I took the brunt of the responsibilities for the shopping. It’s nerve wracking enough being a new bride, but trying to come up with the perfect gifts for your new in-laws really is the icing on the cake of nerves. I don’t remember Bald Man being much of a help in those days.
This year has probably been the best we’ve had together as a couple preparing for Christmas. Part of it, I think, has to do with learning each other over the years. One of the reasons Bald Man’s not been so involved in this aspect of the holidays is because he doesn’t like to shop. Well, guess what, neither do I. I, however, can also not do with not getting people anything for Christmas, so I knew I just had to get it done. This year, though, we did 90% of our shopping on-line, and he was a huge help. AND, we knocked most if it out in an evening!!! And did I mention how fun it is to see packages arrive on the porch, even if I know they’re not for me? 
Anyway, the buying for the in-laws thing is getting easier, too. After a decade, I’m more able to just come straight out and ask them what they would like, and they’re more able to just offer suggestions. Still, when it comes to footwear, I have to have Bald Man step up for the ordering. If the size is wrong, then it’s not all on me. Besides, if he doesn’t know his dad’s shoe size, what makes him think I will?!?
How about you? Is your shopping split evenly? Are you responsible for coming up with the gift ideas?
photo credit: Manassas Cakery That’s a wedding cake. Isn’t that wild?
I thought that was a cake. Cool. Not married but I still plan the shopping for our son with the ex. He loves shopping and I hate it. So basically we decide what Cedar’s getting and then I go out for half and he gets the rest. Although, he knows I hate shopping so he’ll do more if I get sick of it. We also quit doing adult gifts about three years ago so that’s really helped the stress.
Jennifer: That’s cool that you and your ex can do that for your son. I can’t let go of the adult gift thing, yet. I enjoy giving and receiving them too much!!
My fiance’ and I will be spending Christmas together this year, last year we spent it seperated, so we decided to buy gifts for everyone for both of the families. He went with my to buy some gifts, like three I think, and then I bought the rest by myself. I had to come up with all the ideas though, even for his family, so that was a little stressful. But, I think I did a great job and I’m sure as the years pass that it will get easier.