How does your weight affect your libido?

Okay, let’s talk about… shhhh… SEX!

Specifically, I’m wondering if those of you who are like me imagine that you’ll feel like makin’ love (as the song goes) when you lose a few pounds, only to lose weight and still feel unsexy?

I am the type who wants to be unrestrained happy with my body when in an amorous situation; but to be honest, I’m too ashamed of the way I look sans clothing to feel completely “free”.

I can remember being actively anorexic and telling myself that, one day, I would be thin enough and that I’d feel really awesome while spending time between the sheets with someone. 

But that never came to fruition. 

Instead, I tend to worry about what’s jiggling too much to get completely “jiggy” with it!