How To Tell If She’s Into You?

Guys, I just read 5 tips from Asylum about how to tell if a female is into you.  I can say that as a female, I think they’ve hit the nail on the head here. I’ve done a few of these myself, including the first, or more accurately, usually the first.

1. A woman is interested if she approaches you and says something, anything, in an attempt to draw you out. This could be something as lame as “Come here often?” Or something like, “Did you see where my friend went?”  She is trying to get you to talk back to her. Pretty straight forward. If you are interested, say something back. Anything.

2. A woman is interested in you if you find her looking at you a lot. It could be staring or it could be a series of random glances, whatever it is, it shows that she’s noticed you and is thinking about making a move, but perhaps doesn’t have the guts to do so.  If you are interested, get up, walk across the room and do what the woman in #1 did. Just say something.

3. A woman is interested in you if she’s suddenly making some additional effort with her appearance. The Asylum piece mentions lip gloss and two women with different agendas – one takes her sweater off to show more skin and the other tidys up her appearance. Either way, if you notice this happening, then chances are, this woman is into you.

4. A woman is into you if she keeps making excuses to touch you. It could be your arm or your back, maybe you chest. This is self-explanatory. If she’s touching your sleeve, then she’s probably also thinking about touching what is under the sleeve.

5. A woman is into you if she’s using “flirtatious body language”. Is she licking her lips, running her fingers, or “fondling” her glass?  These are all classics signs of arousal.  

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