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		<title>By: A.S.</title>
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		<dc:creator>A.S.</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Dec 2007 23:57:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Too little too late?
It took Harold Koplewicz too long to realize that hurting people you want to &quot;help&quot; is not acceptable collateral damage.  We should write these officials to thank them for pulling the ads and request that they WATCH THE KOP to make sure he doesn&#039;t try anything this dirty again to drum up business in the name of public awareness:

Kenneth Langone, Board Chairman
New York University Medical Center
ken@invemed.com

Martin Lipton, Board of Trustee Chairman
New York University
mlipton@wlrk.com

John Sexton, President
New York University
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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Too little too late?<br />
It took Harold Koplewicz too long to realize that hurting people you want to &#8220;help&#8221; is not acceptable collateral damage.  We should write these officials to thank them for pulling the ads and request that they WATCH THE KOP to make sure he doesn&#8217;t try anything this dirty again to drum up business in the name of public awareness:</p>
<p>Kenneth Langone, Board Chairman<br />
New York University Medical Center<br />
<a href="mailto:ken@invemed.com">ken@invemed.com</a></p>
<p>Martin Lipton, Board of Trustee Chairman<br />
New York University<br />
<a href="mailto:mlipton@wlrk.com">mlipton@wlrk.com</a></p>
<p>John Sexton, President<br />
New York University<br />
<a href="mailto:john.sexton@nyu.edu">john.sexton@nyu.edu</a></p>
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		<title>By: David K. March</title>
		<link>http://www.blisstree.com/articles/how-will-ransom-notes-go-down-in-history/comment-page-1/#comment-546815</link>
		<dc:creator>David K. March</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Dec 2007 23:11:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kristina: &quot;&lt;i&gt;For all the “awareness” that has supposedly been in place...&lt;/i&gt;&quot;

Indeed, Harold&#039;s dubious laments notwithstanding, &quot;political correctness&quot; stands sorely charged.  The opiate of the masses&#039; conscience, as it were.

Once I (finally) learned of the spectrum, and began to understand how it defined my relationship with society (such as it is), it didn&#039;t take me long to see the commonalities shared by all &quot;out-groups&quot; -- and why my steadfast LACK of faith in both authority and &quot;good intentions,&quot; contrary to what I have been endlessly told, is about as &quot;maladaptive&quot; as using lungs for breathing.

Just as the male &quot;experts&quot; who &quot;studied women&#039;s issues&quot; in the 1800&#039;s and beyond lent impunity to abusive husbands and all aspects of patriarchy; just as the &quot;experts&quot; who &quot;proved&quot; that blacks were &quot;inherently less intelligent&quot; than whites lent impunity to lynchmobs and legislators alike; just as the &quot;model minority&quot; perception has lent impunity to the pervasive societal ignorance and dismissal of the needs of the Asian-American community; so, the &quot;awareness&quot; rhetoric as exemplified by Koplewicz&#039;s ill-fated campaign threatened to lend &lt;i&gt;even more&lt;/i&gt; impunity to the ongoing wholesale dehumanization and abuse of the entirety of the disability and neurodiversity communities -- impunity for the forgivably clueless &quot;PCers&quot; who populate our lives, and impunity for abusers ranging from those who genuinely mean well to those who openly hate and kill, from bullies on the playground to the systematic horrors such as are practiced at the Judge Rotenburg Center and so many other institutions...

And they just can&#039;t understand why we would be so ungrateful.  After all, they&#039;re only trying to help.

Oh, I keep forgetting: rebellion against abuse is conclusive evidence of pathology.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kristina: &#8220;<i>For all the “awareness” that has supposedly been in place&#8230;</i>&#8221;</p>
<p>Indeed, Harold&#8217;s dubious laments notwithstanding, &#8220;political correctness&#8221; stands sorely charged.  The opiate of the masses&#8217; conscience, as it were.</p>
<p>Once I (finally) learned of the spectrum, and began to understand how it defined my relationship with society (such as it is), it didn&#8217;t take me long to see the commonalities shared by all &#8220;out-groups&#8221; &#8212; and why my steadfast LACK of faith in both authority and &#8220;good intentions,&#8221; contrary to what I have been endlessly told, is about as &#8220;maladaptive&#8221; as using lungs for breathing.</p>
<p>Just as the male &#8220;experts&#8221; who &#8220;studied women&#8217;s issues&#8221; in the 1800&#8217;s and beyond lent impunity to abusive husbands and all aspects of patriarchy; just as the &#8220;experts&#8221; who &#8220;proved&#8221; that blacks were &#8220;inherently less intelligent&#8221; than whites lent impunity to lynchmobs and legislators alike; just as the &#8220;model minority&#8221; perception has lent impunity to the pervasive societal ignorance and dismissal of the needs of the Asian-American community; so, the &#8220;awareness&#8221; rhetoric as exemplified by Koplewicz&#8217;s ill-fated campaign threatened to lend <i>even more</i> impunity to the ongoing wholesale dehumanization and abuse of the entirety of the disability and neurodiversity communities &#8212; impunity for the forgivably clueless &#8220;PCers&#8221; who populate our lives, and impunity for abusers ranging from those who genuinely mean well to those who openly hate and kill, from bullies on the playground to the systematic horrors such as are practiced at the Judge Rotenburg Center and so many other institutions&#8230;</p>
<p>And they just can&#8217;t understand why we would be so ungrateful.  After all, they&#8217;re only trying to help.</p>
<p>Oh, I keep forgetting: rebellion against abuse is conclusive evidence of pathology.</p>
<p>:-p</p>
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		<title>By: Christschool</title>
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		<dc:creator>Christschool</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Dec 2007 20:35:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&quot;I’ve been kind of getting the feeling that the negative response to “Ransom Notes” is being viewed positively by its creators: The public’s attention is attention, after all.&quot;  

The campaign was meant to outrage and it doesn&#039;t take much talent to outrage.  I&#039;m living proof of that :-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;I’ve been kind of getting the feeling that the negative response to “Ransom Notes” is being viewed positively by its creators: The public’s attention is attention, after all.&#8221;  </p>
<p>The campaign was meant to outrage and it doesn&#8217;t take much talent to outrage.  I&#8217;m living proof of that <img src='http://www.blisstree.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Kristina Chew, PhD</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kristina Chew, PhD</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Dec 2007 14:05:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks for finding the film, Regan----I suspect that prior review may not have been offered in this case. Thanks for noting that.

dkm, you wrote &quot;pervasiveness and relentlessness&quot;-----I still feel a twinge when certain now &quot;outdated&quot; terms are used to refer to Asians and Asian American. (I won&#039;t go into depictions of women in ad campaigns or I will go off on a tangent........) For all the &quot;awareness&quot; that has supposedly been in place, &quot;Ransom Notes&quot; seems very much a throwback to an earlier, less &quot;enlightened&quot; time.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for finding the film, Regan&#8212;-I suspect that prior review may not have been offered in this case. Thanks for noting that.</p>
<p>dkm, you wrote &#8220;pervasiveness and relentlessness&#8221;&#8212;&#8211;I still feel a twinge when certain now &#8220;outdated&#8221; terms are used to refer to Asians and Asian American. (I won&#8217;t go into depictions of women in ad campaigns or I will go off on a tangent&#8230;&#8230;..) For all the &#8220;awareness&#8221; that has supposedly been in place, &#8220;Ransom Notes&#8221; seems very much a throwback to an earlier, less &#8220;enlightened&#8221; time.</p>
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		<title>By: Regan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Regan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Dec 2007 09:23:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Kristina, while I am sure that the newsroom wants to have a child with autism on TV, the experience that we have had is that unless you can obtain approval before it goes on the air, you really don&#039;t know what is going to go out, or how it is edited...or at least that is the experience that I and a couple of families have had locally. I would not do it again unless I had prior review.

I still do not like the &quot;Ransom Notes&quot; campaign for many of the same reasons that many in addition to myself have stated, and because I think that they have misgauged the public effect. But to be somewhat fair to NYU, besides the donations (I found the example of $5000 *interesting*), there is also an option to volunteer at the center, depending on what opportunities exist (more of administrative, but some assistant positions as well).
Browsing the site, I found this video and I wondered if it might have had an influence on the current campaign, based on some overlap of wording. I had not seen this film before:
&quot;Childhood: Lost and Found, a short film produced exclusively for the Child Study Center by Nathaniel Kahn, Academy Award-nominated director of My Architect (2004), premiered at the 9th Annual Child Advocacy Award Dinner on December 4, 2006. The film featured a series of short vignettes with patients and families treated at the NYU Child Study Center. It tells the emotional story of children and families impacted by autism, attention deficit/hyperactivity disorder, depression, selective mutism, dyslexia, bipolar disorder, and obsessive-compulsive disorder and how they have found a path to wellness through the NYU Child Study Center. &quot;
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CXUUHihgMM8</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kristina, while I am sure that the newsroom wants to have a child with autism on TV, the experience that we have had is that unless you can obtain approval before it goes on the air, you really don&#8217;t know what is going to go out, or how it is edited&#8230;or at least that is the experience that I and a couple of families have had locally. I would not do it again unless I had prior review.</p>
<p>I still do not like the &#8220;Ransom Notes&#8221; campaign for many of the same reasons that many in addition to myself have stated, and because I think that they have misgauged the public effect. But to be somewhat fair to NYU, besides the donations (I found the example of $5000 *interesting*), there is also an option to volunteer at the center, depending on what opportunities exist (more of administrative, but some assistant positions as well).<br />
Browsing the site, I found this video and I wondered if it might have had an influence on the current campaign, based on some overlap of wording. I had not seen this film before:<br />
&#8220;Childhood: Lost and Found, a short film produced exclusively for the Child Study Center by Nathaniel Kahn, Academy Award-nominated director of My Architect (2004), premiered at the 9th Annual Child Advocacy Award Dinner on December 4, 2006. The film featured a series of short vignettes with patients and families treated at the NYU Child Study Center. It tells the emotional story of children and families impacted by autism, attention deficit/hyperactivity disorder, depression, selective mutism, dyslexia, bipolar disorder, and obsessive-compulsive disorder and how they have found a path to wellness through the NYU Child Study Center. &#8221;<br />
<a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CXUUHihgMM8" rel="nofollow">http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CXUUHihgMM8</a></p>
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		<title>By: David K. March</title>
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		<dc:creator>David K. March</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Dec 2007 08:14:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve thrown together a series of questions that I was hoping might be helpful to thoughtful people who find themselves &quot;on the fence&quot; regarding this kind of &quot;awareness.&quot;  Having brooded over it for too long, as usual, I find I have little perspective for how others might see it.  It certainly needs to be reworked, but at the moment, I&#039;m not sure how.

The thing I always find most wanting in discussions of such stuff is a solid sense of the &lt;i&gt;pervasiveness&lt;/i&gt; and &lt;i&gt;relentlessness&lt;/i&gt; of the prejudice that is created and exacerbated by &quot;edgy&quot; rhetoric like that of the &quot;Ransom Notes&quot; campaign, and how that prejudice destroys quality of life day-by-day, year after year, without end.  For those of us who have been made the target of it, the sense of its harmfulness is visceral, burned into our flesh -- words are not necessary.  But for those who have never been the target of pervasive prejudice, it&#039;s as if no amount of explanation or description can possibly get through the shell of naïveté and/or resistance.  Just as it is with racial and ethnic relations.  Same problem.  How to convey the depth and magnitude of damage done?  I dunno...

Anyway, here&#039;s my most recent (and tentative) installment in the discussion.  Hopefully it&#039;s not too awfully redundant:
&lt;a href=&quot;http://dkmnow.wordpress.com/2007/12/18/questions-about-nyu/&quot;&gt;NYU’s “Ransom Notes” campaign: How Will It Work?&lt;/a&gt;

Conspicuously absent is any mention of Koplewicz&#039;s co-authorship of the highly unethical Paxil Study 329, and the highly profitable web of influence shared by the key players in this campaign ... I&#039;m not at all sure how to work that in without conveying even more bias to readers.  Maybe the most useful thing would be to develop a more coherent thesis, and then stick to it.  We&#039;ll see.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve thrown together a series of questions that I was hoping might be helpful to thoughtful people who find themselves &#8220;on the fence&#8221; regarding this kind of &#8220;awareness.&#8221;  Having brooded over it for too long, as usual, I find I have little perspective for how others might see it.  It certainly needs to be reworked, but at the moment, I&#8217;m not sure how.</p>
<p>The thing I always find most wanting in discussions of such stuff is a solid sense of the <i>pervasiveness</i> and <i>relentlessness</i> of the prejudice that is created and exacerbated by &#8220;edgy&#8221; rhetoric like that of the &#8220;Ransom Notes&#8221; campaign, and how that prejudice destroys quality of life day-by-day, year after year, without end.  For those of us who have been made the target of it, the sense of its harmfulness is visceral, burned into our flesh &#8212; words are not necessary.  But for those who have never been the target of pervasive prejudice, it&#8217;s as if no amount of explanation or description can possibly get through the shell of naïveté and/or resistance.  Just as it is with racial and ethnic relations.  Same problem.  How to convey the depth and magnitude of damage done?  I dunno&#8230;</p>
<p>Anyway, here&#8217;s my most recent (and tentative) installment in the discussion.  Hopefully it&#8217;s not too awfully redundant:<br />
<a href="http://dkmnow.wordpress.com/2007/12/18/questions-about-nyu/">NYU’s “Ransom Notes” campaign: How Will It Work?</a></p>
<p>Conspicuously absent is any mention of Koplewicz&#8217;s co-authorship of the highly unethical Paxil Study 329, and the highly profitable web of influence shared by the key players in this campaign &#8230; I&#8217;m not at all sure how to work that in without conveying even more bias to readers.  Maybe the most useful thing would be to develop a more coherent thesis, and then stick to it.  We&#8217;ll see.</p>
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		<title>By: Lisa/Jedi</title>
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		<dc:creator>Lisa/Jedi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Dec 2007 04:30:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I agree wholeheartedly with your not wanting Charlie filmed, Kristina. The media has their own agenda &amp; once they have the film, they&#039;re in control &amp; can portray things any way they want to (not unlike the so-called reality shows so popular these days...). You are an excellent communicator, so there&#039;s no need to put your family in this sort of situation in order to get your position publicised- thank goodness!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I agree wholeheartedly with your not wanting Charlie filmed, Kristina. The media has their own agenda &amp; once they have the film, they&#8217;re in control &amp; can portray things any way they want to (not unlike the so-called reality shows so popular these days&#8230;). You are an excellent communicator, so there&#8217;s no need to put your family in this sort of situation in order to get your position publicised- thank goodness!</p>
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		<title>By: Kristina Chew, PhD</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kristina Chew, PhD</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Dec 2007 03:49:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Dogs and car accidents.</description>
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		<title>By: Marla</title>
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		<dc:creator>Marla</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Dec 2007 03:44:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I can understand not wanting Charlie filmed.  I am glad they called you about representing everyone.  Good luck!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I can understand not wanting Charlie filmed.  I am glad they called you about representing everyone.  Good luck!</p>
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		<title>By: Daisy</title>
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		<dc:creator>Daisy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 19 Dec 2007 03:42:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Awareness is the lowest form of comprehension. Hasn&#039;t autism gone beyond simple awareness? A more appropriate goal would result in more approriate billboards. I am hearing impaired, my son is blind and on the spectrum, and frankly, &quot;awareness&quot; doesn&#039;t cut it anymore.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Awareness is the lowest form of comprehension. Hasn&#8217;t autism gone beyond simple awareness? A more appropriate goal would result in more approriate billboards. I am hearing impaired, my son is blind and on the spectrum, and frankly, &#8220;awareness&#8221; doesn&#8217;t cut it anymore.</p>
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