http://www.blisstree.com/articles/im-raising-a-heartbreaker-35/ Family, Health, Home and Lifestyles Tue, 22 Dec 2009 23:08:44 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 http://www.blisstree.com/articles/im-raising-a-heartbreaker-35/comment-page-1/#comment-32791 evi Fri, 29 Aug 2008 08:18:52 +0000 http://www.supernannyrules.com/im-raising-a-heartbreaker/#comment-32791 I think you did well by including the girl into family's activities. And I also think it's a good sign you grew to liking her - isn't that a sign your son picked a nice likeable young woman as his girl-friend? So I guess you shouldn't try NOT to get involved with her too much. However, what you ABSOLUTELY should NOT do: ask your son "How could you do this to me?" - that's what my mom did after I broke up with my boyfriend. She didn't like him when we got together and gradually fell for him - when I broke up with him, she was crushed. Well, being 18 and going through this situation, I expected a somewhat different support from her than "How could you do this to me?"... ;-) Well, even mom's are not perfect. Today, we are laughing about it. ;-) I think you did well by including the girl into family’s activities. And I also think it’s a good sign you grew to liking her – isn’t that a sign your son picked a nice likeable young woman as his girl-friend? So I guess you shouldn’t try NOT to get involved with her too much.
However, what you ABSOLUTELY should NOT do: ask your son “How could you do this to me?” – that’s what my mom did after I broke up with my boyfriend. She didn’t like him when we got together and gradually fell for him – when I broke up with him, she was crushed. Well, being 18 and going through this situation, I expected a somewhat different support from her than “How could you do this to me?”… Well, even mom’s are not perfect. Today, we are laughing about it.

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