Interview with a blogger…Kathy from KnowItAlz.com
June 29, 2007 by Liz Lewis
Filed under Diseases & Conditions
There are so many interesting blogs out in cyberspace that tackle the issues of Alzheimer’s Disease. Most focus on research, education, and resources. But many have evolved because the blogger has someone in their life who has Alzheimer’s disease. These types of blogs are similar to the old fashioned diary or journal and offer a slice of life perspective. They give Alzheimer’s a human face.
Kathy is one such blogger. She started KnowItAlz while caring for her father who suffers from Alzheimer’s Disease. Reading Kathy’s blog is a little like reading a letter from home…she even provides you with a cast of characters so you always know who’s who.
I talked (via email) with Kathy the other day, asking her about blogging about Alzheimer’s.
Here’s what she has to say.
Kathy, what motivated you to start KnowItAlz?
When my mom died suddenly in 2004, my sisters and I decided that I was best equipped to care for Dad at home. It quickly became clear that he was not able to live by himself. My approach to getting him to move in with us was to just ask him if he would mind staying with us for a couple of weeks. Then we just eventually moved all of his things over, and he just transitioned into the move without ‘the talk’.
My goal as a caregiver is to provide a happy, stress free life for Dad, to preservie his pride and dignity, and search out the finest medical care available.
I started KnowItAlz so that I would be forced to think of at least one happy or funny thing every day. I feel that concentrating on the postive side of caregiving makes me a better daughter for my sweet Dad.
So tell us a little about the KnowItAlz blog.
I write a daily entry that shows the lighter (and sometime’s even ridiculous) side of caring for someone with dementia, and offers tips to caregivers. I am hoping to use my experiences as well as the experiences of others to make the caregivers that read the blog find the silver lining.
Here’s one such post:
When I Check out (June 23, 2007) Dad and I were at the grocery store this afternoon buying items for our big cookout. While in the checkout line, Dad noticed this week’s Newsweek magazine. The cover story is about caregiving and Alzheimer’s (a fantastic story by the way, if you haven’t read it).
Dad pointed to the cover and said “That is one disease I sure hope I never get.” He paused for a moment and said, “Well I guess if I DO get it, at least I won’t remember.”
He cracked us both up.
What do you personally get out of the KnowItAlz blog ?
I feel joy when reading comments from other caregivers that credit KnowItAlz for making them smile, or cheering them up. These are hard working, loving people that often have very few laughs.
And what keeps you blogging ?
I want people to know that an Alzheimer’s diagnosis is not the end of the world for the diagnosed person, or the caregiver. I want to show that even after 7 years into this disease, my Dad and I enjoy moments and memories we have left, and will go out fighting. And laughing.
So when you have free minute, stop by KnowItAlz and say hi to Kathy…






































Liz, what a wonderful interview! I’ve discovered Kathy’s blog, too. I’ve been impressed with her blog and her anecdotes about life with her Dad. It’s great to get to know Kathy better. Even though my mom is no longer with us, I smile when I read Kathy’s insights which bring back the happier memories of caring for Mother during her journey through Alzheimer’s. I kept a spasmodic journal (blogging wasn’t available then) while caring for Mother. I realized we had to see the humor in each day when Mother remarked, “We don’t laugh enough, do we?” This has enabled me to look back upon those years of caring for Mother with fond memories rather than totally devastating ones.
A great interview Liz. Thanks for sharing Kathy’s positive outlook and approach.
I especially love the inclusion of the photos which give an immediate personal connection with Kathy and her family.
Mary Emma and Yvonne, glad you liked the interview but the credit all goes to Kathy - I just asked the questions. And agree Yvonne about the photos - pictures often tell the story…
Liz,
When I was surfing for information about Alzheimer’s, Kathy’s blog was one of the first ones I found. I was instantly hooked and from her sight found many other wonderful places and “met” wonderful people. Laughter IS the best medicine and I respect and admire her for finding something to laugh about every day. It’s not easy finding something funny in AD!
I’m the founder of WorkingCaregiver.com… designed for family caregivers working full-time and caring for an aging relative. Our goal is to help working caregivers find family & work balance!
I love KnowItAlz! It brings smiles to my face… and laughter! My dad had Alz so I know some of the sweet stories AND some of the heartaches too. I want to remember the sweet ones.. Thank you Kathy for focusing on the sweet ones.
Carol Marak
Workingcaregiver.com
Hi Cherie and Carol, thanks for stopping and leaving a comment. It’s always good to share about people who do good and I think Kathy is one of them. Laughter is always one of the best medicines for patients, families, and caregivers.