It’s Been Another Day
September 18, 2008 by Marc Audet
Filed under Relationships
So, as if we haven’t had to adapt to enough changes over the past fifteen months, Marye taking over the driving has really tried her schedule of too few hours in a day.
With all of the other stresses put on us the last two Doctor visits have had the “C” word (cancer) float into the conversation. This Tuesday really did it. The Doctor asked, “Marc, you haven’t been driving have you? Marc you can not drive until you are six months seizure and/or syncope free.”
Busted.
Our son Chris has left his ‘06 Dodge Ram,”Yes it’s got a HEMI in it” 4×4 for me to drive while he is overseas for the next three years. Now it will sit for a while.
Today I thought Marye was going to lose it. Normally I would drive Matthew to college and pick him up. Marye has to do that now which means she is taken away from her work, blogging and freelance writing assignments.
If you have read Marye’s post from a few days ago, I am trapping the resident raccoons and releasing them on the 100 acre sanctuary that our church is situated on. Well, guess what my lovely wife had to do today?
You got it. She had to drive the little critter and myself sixteen miles to the church, after dropping Matt at college. Ethan also was with us this afternoon and needed to get his hair cut. You got it! Lots of errands. Time crunch.
Then we were off to the health food center for Marye to reward herself and get a massage and I was to meet with the nutritionist to see if she could recommend some herbal remedies for me.
When she read my list of meds it kind of overwhelmed her . She needs to research some things and get back to us.
As we left there Marye asked I needed anything at the grocers next door. I told her I needed shaving cream and after shave balm. So we go in for 2 things and check out with too many items for the express lane. As the cashier is ringing us up, the 3rd item comes up on the register screen at $109,895.00! Talk about inflation.
Another 10-15 minutes later we exit the store. Now it is time to pick Matt up at the college. Needless to say Marye’s schedule for the day was derailed and a major disaster was looming.
Marye was driving and started talking about dinner and how she won’t have time to prepare it. Then she asks me if I know how to fillet a chicken breast. She knows my cooking skills. and should have known my answer would be no, I never have done that. So now she is explaining to me how to do it.
After we get home, I accomplish the filleting and add a cinnamon chipotle rub to the breasts. Let them soak in the rub and start up the grill. Ethan is inside preparing the jasmine rice and a short while later we are all sitting down to eat.
It was good. Several of the kids even commented on how good the chicken came out. Through this I may finally learn to cook after all these years.
It’s almost 11:00 pm and I’m just about to post this and tomorrow we get to do it all over. Pray for Marye. She needs it.
Did I mention I set the live trap out by the chicken coop tonight. Tomorrow could be a repeat of today, and I need to get a ride to work and back, also.
Blessings















I was a day..but I did NOT lose it…I did get all of my articles written, as well as blogs…and I am on my way to bed…before 2 a.m…
His mercies are new every morning..which is a good thing because I think they have been depleted for today.
I love you..and I would rather be doing this with you than anything else without you.
{{{{hugs}}}} to you both….
Marc, can I say how much I appreciate your giving up on driving? It is a hard thing to do, but you are putting so many at risk including yourself if you are driving.
Hang in there Marye…It is a season. things will lighten up in the future.
Seems to me the college student needs to be driving. Marc could be the one to sit in the car while he practices.
One thing I have learned since the time when all 9 kids were home and I spent my days dropping two college kids all over the county (one had clinicals at two different hospitals for nursing school), dealing with OT and PT for David plus orthopedic and neurology visits ( he has mild cerebral palsy) having days start at 5:00 am and end at 11:00pm with no break with a newborn in the midst of all that driving…. is that it is to my benefit to get teens driving as soon as I am able regardless of the cost. My sanity is worth every penny.
Sounds like it’s time to just start killing raccoons. (Sorry if that’s insensitive, but seriously, something has to give – there are only so many hours in a day!) I hope you guys get things figured out. That sounds really, really hard.
I know, Zarah…Marc is tempted…but me, the wildlife rehabiliator just can’t do it! LOL!
Marye,
I can’t even imagine life without you either.
Monica & Ginger,
Thanks,
Sanity?
I’ve gone crazy. I’ll be back later.
Zarah,
That is certainly an option. We live in a town that bans discharging a firearm in city limits. That in mind I got some subsonic .22 cal. LR rounds from a friend. A flintlock or percussion pistol or rifle could also fill the bill. Problem there in Dallas County, the fire marshall has a ban on possession of black powder any where in the county. I don’t like pyrodex or Triple Seven smokeless substitutes. Very unreliable in a flintlock. That’s why folks who use traditional muzzle loaders hate flintlocks. But that’s definitely a different subject. It also makes me want to spend more time at a gun range.
It may come down to execution and making of coonskin hats. Matt would love that.