Kate Hudson Moves On Quick
August 3, 2008 by Sasha Manuel
Filed under Relationships
Being a fan of Kate Hudson films, I couldn’t pass up the chance to get myself a bit of an update even when I knew from reading the title that it’ll be of a personal nature — her dating life.
After the quick read, I can’t help but wonder if it’s true. Will you truly think about a former “failed” relationship after you end your current one? Thinking that this time it will work? Curious thought.
Though I’m a firm believer in second chances, I do draw the line on what will be a healthy move. Changes may have happened, a rekindled passion with the familiar may be comforting but I still consider the unresolved issues — issues that can haunt the couple. Will you truly find yourself in the right sort of relationship?
Another thing that struck me in the article is the mention of the bit about having kids or being a single mom as a way to weed out boys from the men. Wouldn’t it be awesome to be able to do that? I’m no single mum, though. I need to find another way to do that. Suggestions, anyone?
But, yea. Two things worth thinking about: rekindling past relationships and boy weeding. Hehe.
I’d love to hear your thoughts on the matter.
I’ve read a bit about Kate Hudson lately, as well. Here are my Kate impressions:
* The Lance Armstrong thing was quick. Maybe she was just dating him, not really looking to make it something serious? The media called it a relationship – she didn’t.
* I also read that she was spending time with her ex-husband- saw a photo with him, too. I wonder if she isn’t “holed up,” but just “hanging out?”
*Unless she makes a statement, we are really left to guess what exactly is going on with anything in her life.
*Lance Armstrong – he’s one of my celebrity crushes, so I’m wondering what happened with him. He’s just so darn manly.
Now as far as the weeding out the boys goes, I think it takes some time to figure out if a guy is a “man” or a “boy.”
I don’t necessarily think that you always need a man. For example, in that article she talks about wanting to find a guy for a “make-out sesh,” and that sounds casual, so probably better suited to a “boy.”
I’m a single mom and I don’t think it has anything to do with my weeding ability. People don’t always present themselves as they are -you’ve got to develop a good BS-meter and having children doesn’t guarantee this ability. That’s where time helps. If a person lives like an adult, treats you with respect, keeps their word, follows through with their intentions – that’s the Man.
I also think that rekindling can be successful. Sometimes people have unrealistic expectations and time and experience can show you that there’s no such thing as perfection. The trick is to go back into the relationship when you are able to leave the baggage behind you. And you have to both be on the same page, have the same intentions.
That was an interesting post, Sasha.