Kids Health Notes give-away: The Only Hearts Club dolls
May 6, 2008 by Grace Ibay
Filed under Diseases & Conditions
One of the best gifts that a parents can give is the gift of acceptance. No matter what, the loving parent is there to receive the child for who she is and not just what she can do, or failed to do. Or how she looked.
And in a world like today, where the pressure to look pretty and thin can suck the life out of a young girl, how her parent (and especially her mom) looks at her makes a big difference in her self-esteem. To have our girls know and believe that it’s fine to be themselves, and really, we love them no matter what.
My next give-away is perfect for both Mom and her girls – The Only Hearts Club dolls.
These dolls help promote a healthy self-esteem in young girls, by sending them the message to “Listen to your heart, and do the right thing.”
Each doll is “born” with her own, unique identity, likes and dislikes, and group of friends. They were created to show girls that no matter what they like in life, it’s okay to be yourself. These are the same messages that moms tell her girls all the time, and now maybe she’ll have a little more help.
So from one mom to another, I’m giving away one Only Hearts Club doll each to 15 (fifteen) winners!
How to join?
- In the comments, share how you encourage your child(ren) to have a more positive self-image.
- Additional entry will be given to those who link this contest post on their site!
- Eligibility – one entry per person per email daily (so you get more entries if you come back tomorrow).
- It’s open to US residents only. If you have a blog, do post your URL as well, as I love to visit my readers’ sites and catch a conversation.
The contest ends 12:00 midnight EST May 10, 2008 in time for Mother’s day. Fifteen winners will be randomly chosen. I will post the winners before 12mn of May 11, 2008.
(I have 4 other contests for Mother’s Day. Check them out, and join, HERE)
I compliment my kids.
I listen to what they say and encourage their interests and passions. We try to create a strong family unit because knowing that you have your family behind you can really encourage and strenthen a child. I have 4 kids and it’s amazing to me how different each of them are.
we always try to not only praise both of my daughters for looking good but for also being kind, helpful, smart etc
No kids of my own, but my idea. Parents should encourage their children to befriend the kids that are getting picked on by the other kids. Will make a life changing difference to all involved.
I’ve told my daughter that its whats on the inside that counts and she knows thats true, her best friend since first grade is a severly handicapped girl. They are like peas in a pod. They love dolls.
Always say postive things to them, don’t criticize, don’t belittle them.
I taught my daughters that they are responsible for their own happiness, that others can’t make them happy
I talk to her and point out her accopmlishemnts and ask her to remember them at all times.
I don’t have to encourage it. I just have to exhibit it in myself, and they will pick it up naturally.
I really listen to them when they talk. I get down at their level and look them in the eye and listen. The dishes, cleaning, etc. can wait. I want them to know that I think what they have to say is important.
Praise instances of compassion for others!
I tell them that as long as you have fun it doesn’t matter if you win or lose!!!
I’m constantly telling my girls how pretty they are and how much we love them. I didn’t hear any of this as a child and had very low self esteem as a child.
These dolls are so great. I love that they are kids and not adult dolls (Barbie) that they are playing with.
I listen when they talk and make sure they feel that what they have to say is just as important as what I have to say.
These are great dolls, I have purchased them before as a birthday gift for a friends daughter. My granddaughter would love them, she will be 4 in June. We encourage her and praise her and let her know how much we love her.
While I do tell my daughter she is beautiful, I also compliment her for her character traits like kindness, love, and compassion.
I’ve posted about the giveaway here:
http://me-lace.blogspot.com/2008/05/dolls-i-wouldnt-mind-my-niece-playing.html
(not sure if it posted or not. trying again)
I’ve blogged about the giveway here:
http://me-lace.blogspot.com/2008/05/dolls-i-wouldnt-mind-my-niece-playing.html
My niece would love this doll!!!
I believe by listening and always being there is a big factor. Also going to church and having the children play with others there is a fine way to give them self esteem.
I have always told my kids not to judge a book by it’s cover. I told them that each individual has beauty within one’s self. I have always had my arms open to those who need a hug and understanding. My kids are following in my footsteps, and I couldn’t be prouder. Happy Mother’s Day to all.
I really listen to what they have to say.
We have long talks and I listen.
Such a nice prize hope I win .
Keep calm with your children when talking to them no matter what the situation.
TEACH CHILDREN TO RESPECT OTHERS. WHEN THEY SHOW RESPECT THEY GET RESPECT
I encourage them to develop their natural talents.
I think helping children work through their fears, such as fear of insects, or being afraid of the dark helps their self image.
I point out her accoplsihments and show her how she is capable of doing anything.
We make sure our daughter doesn’t buy into the media ideal of blond, skinny, big breasts, as the only form of beauty.
I share special days out one on one with each of my kids.
I let my girls know that it is important to try their best at everything. You won’t always BE the best but you will have tried and that is what is important. And I am their with hugs when the world knocks you down. Having girls I have seen their esteem take a beating time and again from other girls. We keep a sense of humor.
Just by constantly reinforcing your children and making them feel special should help.
i say i love you
I encourage them to their own person, there are day I would just love to send my daughter back up to change her clothes, nothing matches. But she feels beautiful, you can see it in her face. I tell her how cute she looks & off to school we go.
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We try to never use the words ‘good’ and ‘bad.’ And with a girl, we try to talk about being strong, brave and clever – not just about appearance.
I try to let my children know that it is okay to make mistakes and they should come to me for .help when they are in trouble
I tell my children how much I love them and teach them to be kind and polite to others
I just let them know that they are very loved. I tell them no matter what they do or say they are always going to be our baby’s.
Dolls rule.
Always give them a pat on the back when they accomplish something.
We do volunteer work to help others, this always give their self esteem a boost (mine too).
I have a daughter and 2 nieces and avoiding the Barbie/celebrity doll craze can be a real issue. These are what we need to make THE toy for the summer in our girls playgroups and circles.
She’s only 16 months old, but she already likes to pick out her own clothes in the morning and I always tell her she looks just beautiful, (even when she’s toddling around the house in the most bizarre combination . . .) She gives me a very smug look when I compliment her, as if to say “I KNOW I look good mom!” – and that just tickles me
They know I am always there for them because I listen, hear and give them the best advice I can. I never put them down for a mistake.
Give praise all the time even for small accomplishments.
Always be there for your kids and always talk to them in a loving way its important and they will always love you and care even when they are all grown up.
We try to teach our children by setting a good example. Thanks for this giveaway.
TERE IS NEVER TOO MANY TIMES A DAY YOU CAN TELL YOUR CHILDRE YOU LOVE THEM. THIS IS THE BEST PEP UP PILL THEY CAN TAKE