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]]> By: Kim http://www.blisstree.com/articles/mind-the-gap-2-28/comment-page-1/#comment-2653 Kim Tue, 11 Apr 2006 03:23:30 +0000 http://www.blogfabulous.com/mind-the-gap-2/#comment-2653 Hi Rachel, thanks for your response. You are right and I think that if your job gave you something to look forward to, then that at least was some saving grace. I'm glad you were able to see the forrest from the trees in what sounds like a difficult period. Hi Rachel, thanks for your response. You are right and I think that if your job gave you something to look forward to, then that at least was some saving grace.

I’m glad you were able to see the forrest from the trees in what sounds like a difficult period.

]]> By: rachel http://www.blisstree.com/articles/mind-the-gap-2-28/comment-page-1/#comment-2652 rachel Tue, 11 Apr 2006 02:12:16 +0000 http://www.blogfabulous.com/mind-the-gap-2/#comment-2652 My husband and I moved to Tallahassee, Florida for him to attend law school. I cried the first time we drove through town, and my opinion hasn't changed in three years. I got a job I hated to pay the bills, and I stayed in Tallahassee while he interned in Europe for two months. We were apart for our third anniversary. We were together for one semester before he went to D.C. for a semester-long internship. I've spent a hell of a lot of time alone in a town I can't stand to support us financially. That time apart initially hurt our relationship, but now we're stronger and happier than before. Sometimes you have to take one for the team, as they say. My husband and I moved to Tallahassee, Florida for him to attend law school. I cried the first time we drove through town, and my opinion hasn’t changed in three years. I got a job I hated to pay the bills, and I stayed in Tallahassee while he interned in Europe for two months. We were apart for our third anniversary. We were together for one semester before he went to D.C. for a semester-long internship. I’ve spent a hell of a lot of time alone in a town I can’t stand to support us financially. That time apart initially hurt our relationship, but now we’re stronger and happier than before. Sometimes you have to take one for the team, as they say.

]]> By: Kim http://www.blisstree.com/articles/mind-the-gap-2-28/comment-page-1/#comment-2651 Kim Fri, 07 Apr 2006 14:08:02 +0000 http://www.blogfabulous.com/mind-the-gap-2/#comment-2651 Hsien, We were in are early 30's at the time...the height of career arrogance... lol. I love your playlibrary.com...I'm going to tell readers about it. Hsien,

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]]> By: Hsien Lei http://www.blisstree.com/articles/mind-the-gap-2-28/comment-page-1/#comment-2650 Hsien Lei Fri, 07 Apr 2006 14:02:30 +0000 http://www.blogfabulous.com/mind-the-gap-2/#comment-2650 Kim, I don't know if my attitude is more healthy. I think it all depends on what stage of our life we're at when these things happen. I didn't have a set identity when I finished grad school and was a bit burnt out of research so I was happy to have the excuse to move on. As for having a life of my own, who said I did? LOL Kim, I don’t know if my attitude is more healthy. I think it all depends on what stage of our life we’re at when these things happen. I didn’t have a set identity when I finished grad school and was a bit burnt out of research so I was happy to have the excuse to move on.

As for having a life of my own, who said I did? LOL

]]> By: Kim http://www.blisstree.com/articles/mind-the-gap-2-28/comment-page-1/#comment-2649 Kim Fri, 07 Apr 2006 13:15:49 +0000 http://www.blogfabulous.com/mind-the-gap-2/#comment-2649 Thanks for your response Hsien... Your attitude seems much more healthy than mine was. You remind me that everything we did in London revolved around his job...friends, outings, parties...I felt as if I had no identity. The guilt that I felt had to do with my not having figured out how to both support him and learn to have a life of my own while I was there. I feel as if I didn't take advantage of the opportunity. Thanks for your response Hsien…

Your attitude seems much more healthy than mine was.

You remind me that everything we did in London revolved around his job…friends, outings, parties…I felt as if I had no identity.

The guilt that I felt had to do with my not having figured out how to both support him and learn to have a life of my own while I was there. I feel as if I didn’t take advantage of the opportunity.

]]> By: Hsien Lei http://www.blisstree.com/articles/mind-the-gap-2-28/comment-page-1/#comment-2648 Hsien Lei Fri, 07 Apr 2006 08:04:34 +0000 http://www.blogfabulous.com/mind-the-gap-2/#comment-2648 For the first four years of our marriage, my husband and I also lived on different continents. I was finishing grad school and he was busy working. Although it was tough, I think it worked to our advantage. We could dedicate our time to our careers without feeling as if we'd neglected the other by staying late at the lab or office. And when we finally reunited and I started following him around the world for his job, I wasn't resentful that I'd given up everything b/c I'd completely my education and was flexible enough to try new career paths. What a great post, it's really got me thinking. For the first four years of our marriage, my husband and I also lived on different continents. I was finishing grad school and he was busy working. Although it was tough, I think it worked to our advantage. We could dedicate our time to our careers without feeling as if we’d neglected the other by staying late at the lab or office. And when we finally reunited and I started following him around the world for his job, I wasn’t resentful that I’d given up everything b/c I’d completely my education and was flexible enough to try new career paths.

What a great post, it’s really got me thinking.

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