My son and his big fat obnoxious white trash girlfriend
Over the weekend, my family went camping. We’d looked forward to a nice quiet weekend away, on the water – where the men could do some fishing and I could take in a hefty dose of chick flicks.
Once at the campground – granted, it wasn’t as if it were 50+ miles away, we discovered that some of their friends and one son’s girlfriend were camping just a short distance away.
As it turns out, the girlfriend had also invited one of her friends to camp with her family and the friend has a crush on another of my boys.
There were several times my husband had to point out to the girls that they needed to tone their voices down a few hundred decibels or return to their own campsites.
Since we live on a small farm, we returned home in the mornings and evenings to tend to our animals. While we were gone, it seems the neighboring campers had to call DNR on our campsite because they were being loud and obnoxious with filthy mouths.
Thanks to the alert of son number 3 – who doubles as the family Drama King, we were aware of the situation before we returned to camp.
Upon our return, the pair of girls were walking toward our campsite in nothing but their two piece bathing suits (looked more like band aids) – that might not be so bad, but the beach was nearly a half mile away from our campsite and it was not warm enough to be dressed like that.
We arrived at our campsite before the girls and were prepared for them to make their grand, yet scantily clad, entrance. Obvious attempts at appealing to teenage male hormones.
What is it with girls these days? They’re learning to show their training bra tits to get a little attention from the pockets of a boy who knows something is going on, but doesn’t know What is going on.
When the girls arrived at our campsite, my husband chose not to be considerate and quiet, but wished to alert our neighboring campers that 1. the girls were not ours and 2. we did not approve of the way they looked OR acted.
First he pointed out that the girls should put some clothes on and cover their shit UP - the beach wasn’t close by and their was no purpose for bikini’s in that particular neck of the woods. After he made them feel extremely uncomfortable and overly exposed, he attacked on their filthy mouths.
We both expressed our displeasure with their obvious attempts at attention and the only attention they were going to get from us or our family as the result was a swift kick to the curb and the order to clean up their act or not see our sons.
Now, I might point out the girls are FOURTEEN and have NO problem cussing in front of adults. One dropped the F Bomb in front of me a few times and we’d heard the one cussing at her parents when they’d called her cell to tell her dinner was almost ready.
I’d SO beat her ass!
I’m not stupid, I know my kids swear behind my back – as it should be!
I’m still in a state of shock and denial over the loud mouthed little flips – but what’s a parent to do?
The bright side is our boys don’t drive and they can only see their girlfriends when we allow them to. What I’m most concerned about is when we don’t have that much control and they find ways of sneaking around.
I am positive the boys are attracted to the racy girls simply because they know that when the opportunity comes knocking for them to have sex, this type of girl is a sure thing. Something every find young girl should aspire to be – NOT!
Being the mom of teenagers is terrifying – The only comfort I find in this whole scenario is knowing I have boys instead of girls.
While I totally agree and feel for you on your entire rant, I wanted to say I’ve seen children as young as FOUR cuss out their parents and/or grandparents including the F-word and the adult did little much of NOTHING to let them know that was not cool. Andrew would be picking himself up on the other side of the room if he laid the F-bomb on me like that. LOL
Good lord! Sounds like you guys attracted some hussies on your camping trip but I’m glad your husband spoke up and put them in their place! No respect for you, your family, their parents and certainly none for themselves.
That just makes me sad…
Unfortunately, this seems to be the way parenting has turned. DSS has become so involved in everything that parents are afraid to spank or discipline their children anymore. Of course, some parents just don’t care. Tell your sons to steer clear of these girls. These are the kind that will trap you into a lifetime of heartache and child support payments.
Oh my goodness, that is funny but I’m only laughing because my boys are 4, 3, and then I have a 1 year old little girl. I know I will be in trouble and that just gave me a glimpse at it!!! Good Luck!
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This is so sad. I hope, though, that you are angry at the parents for not teaching them better, because that is truly what the problem is. Obviously, this poor girls parents do not demand good behavior or respect nor do they give this girl the attention she needs and, thus, the girl looks for attention in the worst ways. I sure hope you and your family can be an example to this girl.
No one under the age 25 will be cussing in front of me. That right there is a HELL to the NO!
If the parent’s FORGOT to teach them how to act in public and how to treat their elders, then I elect myself VP of snatching a kid back into reality.
My daughter is 21 and bet NOT cuss around me. I will break something off in her ASS!
She is very respectful and would NEVER act this way. I am very proud to be a mother to a beautiful daughter and one that I know will act right when she is in public!
Good god, these girls are fourteen! My age? Just to let you know, I’m not like that AT ALL! I just turned 14 and would never drop an F bomb, I won’t even say the “s” word, and it takes a lot for me to say the “a” or “b” word. Other than those four and the “n” word (which is completely taboo), I actually don’t even know what the other swears are! I wear a bathing suit when I go to the beach, that’s it. I typically wear a tankini or bikini with a lot of coverage, halter not string, and don’t take off my cover-up until actually in the water for the first! Just remember not all kids are like this. ; )
I’m 14. I cuss. You are being completely unfair to these HIGHSCHOOL girls. Your sons (who I think are probally 14, or somewhere close) can look out for themselves, and know the “F-bomb” which in my school ( an urban, top-notch public school in Washington, DC) is said many times in the coarse of the day, hey, some teachers use it. If you want your sons to be prim perfect little brats, go ahead and minimalize their view of young women as sluts. But if I was in this situation with a parent like you, I would take something of your ass, you “White trash”!
Ghans: You have got to be kidding me. I’m going to step out of the way while everyone here trashes your unacceptable and disrespectful behavior.
TEACHERS DROPPING THE F BOMB?!?
Just because people do it it doesn’t make it okay.
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You know Karen, I’d like to also step back from really trashing to set an example. ; )
But I just have something else to say…
By the way you capitalized high school, you must really be full of yourself on the fact that you just started. So you now are going to school where you are constantly changing classes, what does that have to do with cussing? You sound like you think you’re pretty grown-up. I know I’m not an adult and am far from it, I’m not afraid to admit that and that’s okay. Being mature is not fooling yourself on how grown-up you are.
*a school
I want to make it clear, I’ve only heard teachers dropping in once or twice, and I think it’s wrong, but it is true.
I do agree that what they did was not right, but you over reacted by posting a long blog entry just to rant on about it, rather then talking to the parents. If you had found them doing something that was in anyway sexual, then yes, they were “big fat obnoxious white trash girlfriend” but as I see it, they were just being teenage girls, maybe a bit disrespectful, but still not trash
Oh yeah, I’m not pretending I’m more mature then I am, or being full of my self for going to high school, but trying to say that maybe they are more mature then you think.