New Direction, New Focus, New Project: Being Fabulous

Image by MrOmega via FlickrIn keeping with Michelle’s new mission, I’ve decided to create one of my own.

We’ve focused so much on dating, what’s good about it, what’s horrible about it, and how to do it. We very rarely focus on ourselves, as single women.

I wrote a post the other day about being a “quality woman” in order to attract a “quality man”. I’d like to expand upon that some more. I’ve become a firm believer in shifting your focus from “finding” someone to “attracting” someone into your life, and in doing so, I’ve decided that I have a lot of things about myself, my life, my views, and my thoughts that need some major adjustments.

I want to talk about what single women can do to feel special. Without having a man in their lives.

I want to talk about how to shift your thoughts from “I need a man.” to “It’d be nice to have someone to share life with.”

I want to talk about how what we project to the world is what we’re going to receive from those in it.

I want to talk about the Law of Attraction, living a fulfilling life as a singleton, and setting goals for ourselves as individuals.

We deserve happiness, sure. We also deserve success when we put forth an effort, and that goes well beyond gussying up for a date. Our identities are not made by anyone but ourselves, and so many women I know need to learn that. Listen, I’m a pro at being single. But in my last relationship I lost a LOT of who I am, and dammit, I want her back!

Stay tuned, because this Dating Dame is taking the focus off dating, and putting it right where it belongs, back on me!