Of Patterns and Principles
July 6, 2008 by Sasha Manuel
Filed under Relationships
There will always be a standard. There will always be the sizing up part. There will always be decisions to make.
You may have developed a pattern over the years, intentionally or not. For whatever reason, it’s brings you comfort above all. It’s the most convenient thing to do. I’m not passing judgment. I’m only observing.
Some of your actions will be based on a pattern. Some are influenced by principles. We can only hope that the combination is healthy enough to provide you with relationship or dating prospects.
For men, as the pursuer, I hope you are mostly ruled by principles. This goes the same for women.
Can we actually tell if we’re merely doing the whole dating and relationship thing straight out of a pattern (badly made for some)? Or are we just forever trapped in a perennial dilemma?
