Possessive Boyfriends
November 5, 2007 by gayla
Filed under Relationships
Dating Desires has an interesting discussion going on on the topic of possessive boyfriends.
I can’t count the number of women I know who think making their boyfriend jealous is cute – but what they fail to realize is jealousy is glossy, sugar coated way of saying they don’t trust you – and what’s cute about that?
Jealousy – possessiveness and controlling behavior is dangerous, no matter if you are a man or a woman. If your partner is showing signs of jealousy or possessiveness, it’s time to break it off.
I’d be interested in hearing some of your tales on on this topic. Did you have a jealous, controlling lover? How did you handle it? Did you break up? Did they leave?
I am curious! I’ve been there before and as scary as it was, I did leave – but not without the guy running me off the road and totaling a nearly new car.
I didn’t press charges. I didn’t call the cops. I simply told the guy that if he ever came around me again, I’d turn him in.
It’s a scary place to be, but I’d much rather be on this side of the relationship, sharing the experience with you – then to be in the relationship still and scared to death – or even worse – dead.
I have a boyfriend right now, and i cant pinpoint if hes jealous, possessive, or controlling maybe u can help me out, well for a good example, he says hes not any of them but i think he is, he gets mad if im on the computer, or talking on the phone, and he wants me to spend all the time with him i also have 3 children not by him but he blew up last night cause i talked to the father of my kids to talk about the KIDS thats it..He trys and tells me sometimes i used him for his money, I can go on and on and always says to me do you want me to leave. im tryin to think of the things he does all together but its hard and very stressful, Oh 1 time at my old job, he knew what time i got off of work but when i was still working he went in and asked the shipper guy what time shift stopped and if i was still there etc,
Well, I was married for 13 years, I have 3 children, now I have a boyfriend. The nicest person in the world, until lately. He was married once before, not good, she cheated on him and was mean to him. Ok so I feel for the guy and pitty him, good idea?? So we have been together for about 8 months, the other day at work, me and a couple of girls decided to make plans and maybe go out on saturday nite. Well my boyfriend got word of this, see, we all work together. So, he assumes that he is going to. When I told him that it was just girls, he got defensive and rude. Long story short, my girlfriends couldn’t hug me and guys couldn’t talk to me, he was fearfully threatening everyone, they were all shocked!!!