Pretending To Be Something For A Man

Via Christian Carter – In the desire to please a man, women are constantly doing things to get a man’s attention, to get him to like them or to make him more attracted or in love with them.  Another HORRIBLE idea.  Lots of women mistakenly think that doing unusual things to try and get a guys attention will make him magically see what a great catch they are and want to be with them.  Wrong.  Men YOU TRULY WANT are never attracted to the types of women who kiss up to them, make weak plays for affection or complain to get what they want… EVER.

Uhhh Huhhh – Ladies!  How many of you are reading this very post with the little words bouncing around inside your head “O My God I did THAT!”  And you’re realizing a strong resemblance between you and the Staples Easy Button?

Again I have to agree with Christian Carter.  In as much as I am very ashamed to admit that I used to make sickening attempts at being the I can do everything better so he’ll realize he can’t live without me girl, thankfully I woke up one day to realize that I didn’t have to be everything to anyone for it to be love.  Just take a look at Christie Brinkley already?  If her husband can cheat on her and leave her?  Well it CAN and DOES happen to anyone.

Altering who you genuinely are and making a fool of yourself or feeling the fool in the end is no way to treat yourself.  Being true to yourself, respecting yourself and doing ONLY those things you WANT is far more admireable than playing the part of the needy lover even for a day.