Prevent Delinquency through Education and Interaction
My oldest child is entering Middle School this fall, and as much as I truly want to believe that my kids will never try drugs, skip school or become sexually active too early, you just never know. I know quite a few families who I feel did a great job being involved with their kids and providing a good environment for them to grow up in, yet find themselves faced with drug use, teen pregnancies, and other challenges.
I think as a parent, our best tools for preventing these behaviors are supervision, being involved and intelligence. The Prevent Delinquency Project is an excellent resource for parents who want to know what is really going on with teens. Their Child Threat page lists threats to teens as reported by teachers, parents and law enforcement officers. If you think you have a pretty good idea as to the terms and things teens are doing, I challenge you to read some of the tips – I guarantee you will learn something new – I was really surprised by a lot of it.
Additionally, the site’s F.A.M.I.L.Y Model of Parental Supervision provides parents with real techniques for interacting with their teen and supervising the world they live in.
Hat Tip: Supernanny Rules
I have a small little opinion on this topic. I spoke to a few parents with problem teens, and I realised that they have NEVER built a relationship with their children from young. Now that their teens have problems, how do they expect them to suddenly become their “buddy” and turn to their parents for support!? My opinion is this, the best prevention for delinquent teens is to start at the cradle. Build healthy relationships at home with solid examples, guidance and love. Lots and lots of love. Not the “spoilt brats” kind of love. Real, genuine care and concern that dares to discipline, BEFORE they become big enough to discipline you back! [sorry for long comment!]