Proximity Does Matter

I just came back from the trip and one thing that made an huge and lasting impression on me regarding putting distance between you and your partner is that proximity does matter.

I’m sure there are couples out there who go through long distance relationships and succeed, however, I’m also certain that they need assurance every so often that they can see their partner at a given time. They, too, will find that the distance can put a strain on the relationship. Perhaps it’s in the intensity that will differ per couple.

Even when I spoke of technology bridging the gap, I also pointed out how it cannot replace your partner’s physical presence. Assured with the knowledge that with one call you can easily see and be with him or her. During the trip, I found it frustrating that I can only connect using my mobile phone or an occasional chat session (if I’m lucky).

Though, I have to admit that the trip helped me see how I have taken it for granted — my ability to be with him anytime and with ease. It made realise how I’m fortunate to not be in a long distance relationship (that’s not saying the ones who aren’t are unfortunate, ok?). I simply think that my needs are best met with a partner who can be physically around me during the relationship in order of things to work out.

IMHO, proximity (close, at that!) simply plays a big role in nurturing a relationship. What about you guys? What do you think?