REDBOOK’s 500 Sex Tips

REDBOOK has the answers to your sex questions in their new book, REDBOOK’S 500 Sex Tips, by Judy Dutton.  Here are a few tips – straight from the book, via REDBOOK.com -  to help spice things up and get you and your partner in the mood.

*According to a study at the University of New Brunswick, Canada, men feel that the ideal amount of time to spend on foreplay is 18 minutes. Women mistakenly assumed that men wanted less, when they assumed the ideal amount was 15 minutes. I guess they aren’t in the hurry that we assumed they were ladies. Good to know.

*Paul, 27, enjoys getting sexy messages from his lady throughout the day. A little playful teasing gives you both something to look forward to. “Occasionally she’ll page me and send the message ‘I want to [bleep] tonight.’ I love getting playful, devilish little notes like this. It lets me know that she’s going to be ready and raring to go when I get home.” 

*Doing something unexpected can be very sexy, especially when it involves a touch of risk.  Tom, 31 got a sexy surprise from his lady one night, “…my wife and I were out to dinner and we were sitting at a table, but she wouldn’t take off her coat. I asked her why and she said she couldn’t — and just stared at me. Turns out, all she was wearing was a trench coat and high heels. I couldn’t even eat; all I could think was, ‘This is the sexiest thing I’ve ever seen.’”

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