Review & Giveaway: Solemate
September 24, 2009 by Cherie Burbach
Filed under Contests, Women's Health
As a dating writer, I know all too well that woman try and find one special person in their life, a soul mate, so they will finally feel “complete.” The problem is, when a woman isn’t complete in herself, she can’t ever really be happy with anyone. A woman that doesn’t understand this will not only have troubles in romantic relationships, but also in other types of relationships as well.
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For any woman that has felt a little empty (regardless if its dating related or simply in everyday life), I encourage you to read this wonderful book by Lauren Mackler called Solemate. I was riveted because it is not only beautifully written but gives excellent advice as well. The subtitle of this book “Master the Art of Aloneness & Transform Your Life” may make you believe that the book encourages women to be alone all the time. But what the book really does is makes women become so comfortable in their own skin that they attractive the very best types of relationships to them.
I’m giving away a copy of this awesome book to one lucky reader. If you’d like to win, leave a comment on this post by Tuesday, September 29th. I’ll choose one lucky lady at random and announce her the next day!
Image: Lauren Mackler















I am sure this book will give us so many advices for better life….
All advice is appreciated, please enter me for the book drawing!
What a great title for this book. Would love to read it.
I’ve been divorce for 13 years now. The past 13 years,I’ve been working and trying to make ends meet with 3 kids.I was too busy and tired to worry about romance. But this past year, my baby Son left home for college. Now, here I sit, in my almost payed for home, by my self.I’ve been out of the datting game for along time. I need all advise I can get.
I am very interested in the part of the subtitle about being comfortable in your own skin helping you to attract the right relationships. That is such an important part of a woman’s being. Those relationships include workplace relationships and friendships with others, as well as your own relationship with yourself. I struggle with that every day and have been working on it for years. Any book that helps improve your own feelings about yourself is one that I want to read. We all should strive to learn and grow throughout our lives.
I would like to win a copy of Solemate!
I just ordered this book! Recently coming out of a very disappointing relationship, I ask what’s my part in this and why did I stay as long as I did? Why did I become complacent? Not realizing that I really wanted so much more…I hope this book gives me guidance so I understand my motivation.
sounds good even if you are in a relationship – motivates women to be self sufficient