Secret Dating Tips For Men From an Expert
August 13, 2009 by Kelli DesRochers
Filed under Relationships
Women know what they are looking for in men. They know what works and what doesn’t and what is attractive and what is not. So why does it seem like there are so many men out there that are going about everything completely wrong? Why are good guys always getting rejected?
The Wing Girl Method founder Marni Kinrys created her dating coaching company to help men improve their skills and find success in dating. Men are always trying to help men find women, but it is so much more helpful to get dating advice from a woman! I recently conducted an interview with Marni to find out more about The Wing Girl Method…
Q: Tell me a little more about the services that The Wing Girl Method provides…
A: The Wing Girl Method is the first and currently the only female run and operated company to be involved in the Seduction Community. What we do is we offer men a blunt and honest female perspective on how to attract and keep women. Essentially we strip men of their core beliefs about women and themselves, make tweaks and turn these men into more attractive versions of themselves. A lot of men have never learned to master their social skills with women and we find that by providing them with information and insight on what women want they are able to build confidence and finally attract the women they want. These guys typically labelled as “the friend” or “just the nice guy” finally have options!
Q: What is the most common mistake that men are making when they are trying to meet women?
A: The most common mistake men make is forgetting about themselves as soon as an attractive, awesome woman comes along. They throw their self respect and belief of self worth out the window. Suddenly this women who they nothing about becomes more worthy then them and put up on a huge pedestal. Men forget that women are just humans and not magical creatures whose wants and desires should be placed above their own.
Q: Tell me a little about signs that women give to men that men are missing…
A: Contributing to the conversation not just nodding her head and giving one word answers, body language turned towards a man, not covering up her body, hair flips, lip gloss application, eye contact…
One thing to look out for is a woman who is overly comfortable with you and is being overly touchy or grabbing you. Most likely she is simply enjoying you and not into you.
Q: What is the best way for a guy to let a girl know that he is interested?
A: By being present, listening to her and telling her he is interested. Go after what you want. Be proud of it but if rejection strikes be okay with it. Smile and exit and then go find another wonderful girl who wants your attention!
Check out The Wing Girl Method website to get tons more tips, get in touch with Marni, attend a seminar, or sign up for a coaching experience. If you have been struggling in the dating scene, maybe it’s time to get a little extra help from an expert…
I guess those are theories or facts about women that men need to know. However, the most important thing for men to know in dating is how to develop themselves. By then, they can have the guts to present themselves to women and date them. Most dating coaches are men and usually they are PUAs. Like Mystery and Julian Foxx. They have effective dating skills that men would like to know and develop for themselves.
I agree with you completely. Learning who you are and how to confidence in that is exactly what guys need in order to have success in dating.
If I have to go through all of this to get a girl,then I’m happy with my dog and a grill. It’s not always about doing what the woman wants all the time. The only time a man does all of this nonsense is to get the girl. Then after the “NEWNESS” wears off, then is time to be the real dude that you didn’t meet the first time.
I don’t think the idea is that you should “do what the woman wants all the time.” A relationship is definitely about balance between both of your wants.
I definitely think having confidence is a huge part of success with girls. Confidence without being too arrogant, I should say. It turns out that my boyfriend was using pheromones for a confidence boost when we met. Hence my current website, lol! He’s kind of a shy geek in real life, but it must have worked. We’re still together 4 years later