Sharing How You “Feel” Too Early

Via Christian Carter – Another huge and unfortunate mistake that most women make with men is sharing how they “feel” too early on.  Listen…Attractive, single, successful men are rare.  They get a LOT of attention from women.  Most women don’t realize this, but attractive men are being approached in one way or another all the time by women.  And guess what? Attractive men have usually dated a lot of women.  That’s right. They have EXPERIENCE.  They know what to expect.  And one thing that turns an attractive men off and sends him running away faster than just about anything…   It’s a woman who starts saying “You know, I really, REALLY like you” after one or two dates.

This signals to the man that you’re just like one of those “clingy” stereotype women who want to rush into a relationship and can’t control yourself from wanting a man to fulfill them and complete their lives. This does NOT spell ATTRACTION for a man.  Don’t do it. Lean back. Relax. There’s a much better way…

Absolutely!  Women and SOME men need to realize that it doesn’t take another person to complete them!  Once you get to the point where you are your own best friend – where you’re happy with your alone time – learn how to entertain yourself when your alone, your life will be more prepared to handle a relationship.

Even in the best of relationship, couples don’t spend 100% of their time together.  It’s important that you deal with your own insecurities rather than project them onto the next would be partner you may have.

Once you are able to say “I WANT you”… rather than “I NEED you” you’ll be perfectly ripe for becoming 1/2 of a couple.