Comments on: Skillful Flirting

By: Michelle Smith

Michelle Smith — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 18:01:47 +0000

It is easier to flirt when the pressure is off, that’s for sure. I guess the trick is to try to find a way to take the pressure off mid-flirt with the guy you are really attracted to.

Maybe a mantra? Like, repeat “this is just for fun, this is just for fun, ………” (In your head of course, not out loud. ;D) I think I’m going to try that.

By: Franca

Franca — Wed, 14 Jan 2009 14:53:47 +0000

Thanks for the tips! Easier said than done though sometimes. Like you said, when I’m flirting with a guy I actually want to flirt with, my flirting skills are disastrous! It’s the guys you don’t plan on flirting with that make you flirt! So why is that? Obviously you haven’t psyched yourself up to flirt so your more relaxed, but maybe we are looking at the wrong guys to flirt with!

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By: Michelle Smith

Michelle Smith — Thu, 08 Jan 2009 05:04:38 +0000

I agree that being yourself is the best way to go. I’ve never understood why anyone would put on an “act” to attract someone – sooner or later their true self will come out.

Sometimes women who are unsure of themselves or shy come across as being unfriendly. Could it be that the women are just quiet?

By: Janna

Janna — Wed, 07 Jan 2009 21:33:37 +0000

I think I do know how to flirt with out an effort cause men tend to like me and the women sometimes seem to hate me so I guess that’s a good indicator on the matter.

Even so being yourself always seems to get the best result.