Spontaneity in Dating: How much is too much?

That unexpected note tucked in between your planner.

Bouquet of your favourite flowers waiting on your desk when you get back from your lunch.

Taking an unexpected trip to Tijuana.

Buying expensive gifts on a whim.

Sounds so romantic, eh?

I’m sure one wouldn’t mind some form of romantic interlude every now and then — er, interlude being an operative word. Oftentimes, I prefer a bit of organisation and stability in my relationship.

Then again, that’s just me.

What do you guys think of it? Just how much spontaneity can you actually handle in dating? Should you impose a limit?