Comments on: SuperNanny – Meet the McAfee Family http://www.blisstree.com/articles/supernanny-meet-the-mcafee-family-35/ Family, Health, Home and Lifestyles Fri, 04 Dec 2009 15:47:04 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Concerned Comment Reader http://www.blisstree.com/articles/supernanny-meet-the-mcafee-family-35/comment-page-1/#comment-31247 Concerned Comment Reader Fri, 09 May 2008 07:16:39 +0000 http://www.supernannyrules.com/supernanny-meet-the-mcafee-family/#comment-31247 You know-you guys had your kids really young and with age comes experience. I think supernanny has given Brian an opportunity to see another way and change and build on his relationship with his children. And Brian I wish you all the best. People can change! On the flip side, I think you need more adult companionship and fellowship. Keep organising get togethers with your neighbours and school acquaintances and get online or go speed dating and meet some women. Also, you have a responsibility to make sure your kids spend time with their mum. If you guys can't stand each other, use an intermediary to swap the kids. And finally, if it's true, dude, get out of your son's bedroom. I'm all for attachment parenting but he wants you out and you need proper sleep. All the best You know-you guys had your kids really young and with age comes experience. I think supernanny has given Brian an opportunity to see another way and change and build on his relationship with his children. And Brian I wish you all the best.

People can change!

On the flip side, I think you need more adult companionship and fellowship. Keep organising get togethers with your neighbours and school acquaintances and get online or go speed dating and meet some women.

Also, you have a responsibility to make sure your kids spend time with their mum. If you guys can’t stand each other, use an intermediary to swap the kids.

And finally, if it’s true, dude, get out of your son’s bedroom. I’m all for attachment parenting but he wants you out and you need proper sleep.

All the best

]]> By: Randy McAfee http://www.blisstree.com/articles/supernanny-meet-the-mcafee-family-35/comment-page-1/#comment-29428 Randy McAfee Sat, 22 Dec 2007 17:59:41 +0000 http://www.supernannyrules.com/supernanny-meet-the-mcafee-family/#comment-29428 puppy at least I am not hiding my name!! puppy at least I am not hiding my name!!

]]> By: puppy http://www.blisstree.com/articles/supernanny-meet-the-mcafee-family-35/comment-page-1/#comment-29458 puppy Sat, 22 Dec 2007 16:53:49 +0000 http://www.supernannyrules.com/supernanny-meet-the-mcafee-family/#comment-29458 Lets not forget the "facts" you wanted to know where they came from the came from the alaska court records and from public records not in court. Calling stacey a liar when you cant dispute you did it... and can't dispute that you did pull out of a court ordered treatment, you cant dispute that you are not a fit parent in my opinion.. Any grown man that sleeps with son is not fit or healthy. now to adress you directly Brian "Second - do not believe everything my ex is posting. People will lie when it is convenient for them. Check your facts. Your posts in response and all of your “facts”, though perhaps done in good will, were unneccesary and appear to be a means of further hurting me, undoubtly due to current issues. You know I simply want to try something new. Shame on you too." She cant lie when ts all backed by official court website, records, the show itself, and the kids who dont cover for you. but i am done on this issue. all i will ask for is that gayla give the deserved "i'm sorry" to sctaey as she made inncorrect judgements about her and Brian you owe stacey an " I'm sorry" for this and alot more. Silas is an awsome child I think each of the kids is awsome and bright they deserve more than Brian. they deserve their mother and brian could make that happen if hed transport them to see her from time to time. Lets not forget the “facts” you wanted to know where they came from the came from the alaska court records and from public records not in court. Calling stacey a liar when you cant dispute you did it… and can’t dispute that you did pull out of a court ordered treatment, you cant dispute that you are not a fit parent in my opinion.. Any grown man that sleeps with son is not fit or healthy. now to adress you directly Brian

“Second – do not believe everything my ex is posting. People will lie when it is convenient for them. Check your facts. Your posts in response and all of your “facts”, though perhaps done in good will, were unneccesary and appear to be a means of further hurting me, undoubtly due to current issues. You know I simply want to try something new. Shame on you too.” She cant lie when ts all backed by official court website, records, the show itself, and the kids who dont cover for you. but i am done on this issue. all i will ask for is that gayla give the deserved “i’m sorry” to sctaey as she made inncorrect judgements about her and Brian you owe stacey an ” I’m sorry” for this and alot more.

Silas is an awsome child I think each of the kids is awsome and bright they deserve more than Brian. they deserve their mother and brian could make that happen if hed transport them to see her from time to time.

]]> By: puppy my web browser was having issues if this is one here more than once i am sorry http://www.blisstree.com/articles/supernanny-meet-the-mcafee-family-35/comment-page-1/#comment-29457 puppy my web browser was having issues if this is one here more than once i am sorry Sat, 22 Dec 2007 16:45:36 +0000 http://www.supernannyrules.com/supernanny-meet-the-mcafee-family/#comment-29457 Wow and more lies commeth from Mcafee land Wow and more lies commeth from Mcafee land

]]> By: Randy McAfee http://www.blisstree.com/articles/supernanny-meet-the-mcafee-family-35/comment-page-1/#comment-29177 Randy McAfee Wed, 19 Dec 2007 14:46:58 +0000 http://www.supernannyrules.com/supernanny-meet-the-mcafee-family/#comment-29177 Dear puppy and stacy, Jo has helped brian and the children a lot, as do positive comments from others. I wonder where your facts come from? Please don't leave out what the judge said about all the abuse charges that were dissmissed, and the shape the children were in when mom was home, and brian had to leave work because mom called and said she couldn't handle the kids and in ten minutes was leaving. there is much more, but why get envolved here? leave it between Brian and Stacey and let the judge decide what is best for brian and the children Dear puppy and stacy, Jo has helped brian and the children a lot, as do positive comments from others. I wonder where your facts come from?
Please don’t leave out what the judge said about all the abuse charges that were dissmissed, and the shape the children were in when mom was home, and brian had to leave work because mom called and said she couldn’t handle the kids and in ten minutes was leaving.
there is much more, but why get envolved here? leave it between Brian and Stacey and let the judge decide what is best for brian and the children

]]> By: Brian McAfee http://www.blisstree.com/articles/supernanny-meet-the-mcafee-family-35/comment-page-1/#comment-29194 Brian McAfee Wed, 19 Dec 2007 06:54:44 +0000 http://www.supernannyrules.com/supernanny-meet-the-mcafee-family/#comment-29194 Gayla - If you will permit me one post on this matter, I will not burden your lovely site anymore on these subjects :) To the point - to the no name poster-your slander is uncalled for. If your going to post stuff, why not have the guts to leave a real name? Your goal was to cause strife on my family. Shame on you. Second - do not believe everything my ex is posting. People will lie when it is convenient for them. Check your facts. Your posts in response and all of your "facts", though perhaps done in good will, were unneccesary and appear to be a means of further hurting me, undoubtly due to current issues. You know I simply want to try something new. Shame on you too. My reason for being on the show was to get some assistance...nothing more. I did indeed invite Stacey to partake and she and her parents declined. In point of fact, I went through extensive interviews and back ground checks to be on the show...cases against me included...they AND Jo were aware of everything. I only wanted and still want to help my family as they are the single most important thing in my life. Any time someone is put in the spot light, there are those that, having nothing better to do, choose to slander them. That will always be the case. I understand this and shrug off any attempts at upsetting me. I do not claim to be perfect....never have. If your reading this, you, too know that no one is. I bet if we digged, there would all be posts against us that would hurt. It is too bad that these posts have found their way on this site. I apologize, Gayla, for this intrusion. I hope that these "events" have not tarnished any reader's opinions of your site or of Supernanny. My best regards, Brian McAfee Gayla – If you will permit me one post on this matter, I will not burden your lovely site anymore on these subjects :)

To the point – to the no name poster-your slander is uncalled for. If your going to post stuff, why not have the guts to leave a real name? Your goal was to cause strife on my family. Shame on you.

Second – do not believe everything my ex is posting. People will lie when it is convenient for them. Check your facts. Your posts in response and all of your “facts”, though perhaps done in good will, were unneccesary and appear to be a means of further hurting me, undoubtly due to current issues. You know I simply want to try something new. Shame on you too.

My reason for being on the show was to get some assistance…nothing more. I did indeed invite Stacey to partake and she and her parents declined. In point of fact, I went through extensive interviews and back ground checks to be on the show…cases against me included…they AND Jo were aware of everything. I only wanted and still want to help my family as they are the single most important thing in my life. Any time someone is put in the spot light, there are those that, having nothing better to do, choose to slander them. That will always be the case. I understand this and shrug off any attempts at upsetting me.

I do not claim to be perfect….never have. If your reading this, you, too know that no one is. I bet if we digged, there would all be posts against us that would hurt.

It is too bad that these posts have found their way on this site. I apologize, Gayla, for this intrusion. I hope that these “events” have not tarnished any reader’s opinions of your site or of Supernanny.

My best regards,

Brian McAfee

]]> By: Gayla McCord http://www.blisstree.com/articles/supernanny-meet-the-mcafee-family-35/comment-page-1/#comment-29208 Gayla McCord Tue, 18 Dec 2007 16:10:56 +0000 http://www.supernannyrules.com/supernanny-meet-the-mcafee-family/#comment-29208 Seriously people, this has NOTHING to do with the show other than it being a fan site and personal opinions. I'd really appreciate you're keeping the personal and legal disputes off the comments here. I'm not there, I don't know either one of you and I can't support either side. I simply report what I saw ON THE SHOW period. Thanks for the comments and I sincerely hope you both work out the differences for the sake of the children. Seriously people, this has NOTHING to do with the show other than it being a fan site and personal opinions. I’d really appreciate you’re keeping the personal and legal disputes off the comments here. I’m not there, I don’t know either one of you and I can’t support either side. I simply report what I saw ON THE SHOW period.

Thanks for the comments and I sincerely hope you both work out the differences for the sake of the children.

]]> By: Stacey McAfee (yes, the ex-wife) http://www.blisstree.com/articles/supernanny-meet-the-mcafee-family-35/comment-page-1/#comment-29209 Stacey McAfee (yes, the ex-wife) Tue, 18 Dec 2007 15:52:25 +0000 http://www.supernannyrules.com/supernanny-meet-the-mcafee-family/#comment-29209 First off, I'm going to say to whomever posted the last few comments (and I say this in love): over-reaction is helping no one. I understand where you're coming from, and it is a place of concern... I hear that. Thank you for your concern. However, this is helping no one. That being said, since I'm going to post anyway, I will clear a few things up. Take it or not, believe it or not... I can't say I value anyones' opinion on this board, considering the level of judgment I've seen reflected in the posts. Fact: I left Brian. Brian filed to divorce me. Fact: There have been 5 DFYS cases against Brian since I left him in the summer of 2004. Fact: I turned him in to DFYS when my son, Silas, came over with bruises all over his face. This case was substantiated. Fact: In 2006, I had testing done that revealed that I have Asperger Syndrome. (I am now 31 years old). I had just enough ability to function to move out of my parents' house, and not enough functionality to get myself out of an abusive relationship. Fact: I was abused for 8 years while being married to Brian. Fact: Brian went back to sleeping with Silas after Jo left. Fact: Brian hit me and fractured my face on 4 July 2001, in front of Eliana and Silas. Kaia was less than a year old. Fact: Brian destroyed my computer in 2004, and I got a restraining order against him because of it. Fact: My parents have built a 4000 square foot home (duplex style) in Alaska so that Brian can live close enough to receive any help he might need with the children. Fact: I do live 20 minutes away from the kids. However, Brian refuses to transport them at all, so I have to not only pick a day when my functionality is high, but also when I have money to fill up my gas tank. (Sidenote: my parents gave him a gas credit card to use… and yet, he still refuses to transport them). Fact: I took Brian to court last year after Eliana told me Brian had hit her with a coat hanger. I checked her over and found he’d left a large mark near her kidney. Fact: Myself and my parents were all invited to be on the episode of Supernanny. We declined. Finally, if you absolutely need to, go here and type in MCAFEE. http://www.courtrecords.alaska.gov/pa/pa.urd/pamw6500.display I am now finished with this non-sense. First off, I’m going to say to whomever posted the last few comments (and I say this in love): over-reaction is helping no one. I understand where you’re coming from, and it is a place of concern… I hear that. Thank you for your concern.

However, this is helping no one.

That being said, since I’m going to post anyway, I will clear a few things up. Take it or not, believe it or not… I can’t say I value anyones’ opinion on this board, considering the level of judgment I’ve seen reflected in the posts.

Fact: I left Brian. Brian filed to divorce me.

Fact: There have been 5 DFYS cases against Brian since I left him in the summer of 2004.

Fact: I turned him in to DFYS when my son, Silas, came over with bruises all over his face. This case was substantiated.

Fact: In 2006, I had testing done that revealed that I have Asperger Syndrome. (I am now 31 years old). I had just enough ability to function to move out of my parents’ house, and not enough functionality to get myself out of an abusive relationship.

Fact: I was abused for 8 years while being married to Brian.

Fact: Brian went back to sleeping with Silas after Jo left.

Fact: Brian hit me and fractured my face on 4 July 2001, in front of Eliana and Silas. Kaia was less than a year old.

Fact: Brian destroyed my computer in 2004, and I got a restraining order against him because of it.

Fact: My parents have built a 4000 square foot home (duplex style) in Alaska so that Brian can live close enough to receive any help he might need with the children.

Fact: I do live 20 minutes away from the kids. However, Brian refuses to transport them at all, so I have to not only pick a day when my functionality is high, but also when I have money to fill up my gas tank. (Sidenote: my parents gave him a gas credit card to use… and yet, he still refuses to transport them).

Fact: I took Brian to court last year after Eliana told me Brian had hit her with a coat hanger. I checked her over and found he’d left a large mark near her kidney.

Fact: Myself and my parents were all invited to be on the episode of Supernanny. We declined.

Finally, if you absolutely need to, go here and type in MCAFEE.

http://www.courtrecords.alaska.gov/pa/pa.urd/pamw6500.display

I am now finished with this non-sense.

]]> By: Gayla McCord http://www.blisstree.com/articles/supernanny-meet-the-mcafee-family-35/comment-page-1/#comment-29265 Gayla McCord Sun, 16 Dec 2007 14:50:24 +0000 http://www.supernannyrules.com/supernanny-meet-the-mcafee-family/#comment-29265 The following was sent in response to a private email I received from the one person posting as Puppy and the three prior comments: Hello, I'd like to state for the record that I am merely a FAN of the show SuperNanny. I have nothing to do in association with the show other than reporting what I SEE on the show in personal opinion, period. I have checked the comments and can see that all the comments come from the same IP address. I believe them to be personal in nature and would advise that if you have any personal issues with Brian, that you seek assistance of an attorney or other means within the proper jurisdiction. I cannot help you any further. Unless something comes from someone with reputable verification other than a random email or three, I cannot call that fact and will not subject my readers to family conflict as such. Wishing you the best The following was sent in response to a private email I received from the one person posting as Puppy and the three prior comments:

Hello,
I’d like to state for the record that I am merely a FAN of the show SuperNanny. I have nothing to do in association with the show other than reporting what I SEE on the show in personal opinion, period.

I have checked the comments and can see that all the comments come from the same IP address. I believe them to be personal in nature and would advise that if you have any personal issues with Brian, that you seek assistance of an attorney or other means within the proper jurisdiction. I cannot help you any further.

Unless something comes from someone with reputable verification other than a random email or three, I cannot call that fact and will not subject my readers to family conflict as such.

Wishing you the best

]]> By: puppy http://www.blisstree.com/articles/supernanny-meet-the-mcafee-family-35/comment-page-1/#comment-29301 puppy Sun, 16 Dec 2007 04:39:21 +0000 http://www.supernannyrules.com/supernanny-meet-the-mcafee-family/#comment-29301 brian your a liar, your ex I'll call her "S" has been fighting you since way before supper nanny for custody of HER kids. and what you posted below is all a lie just like most of what you said on tv. and the last two post I was glad to see someone pull up the truth... and yea I will stand by what I am saying when i say you dont deserve those kids and i think any man who has more than 4 (or did you stop at 3) files of child abuse in file in public record should not be and will not be allowed to leave state with kids. and I will hope one day those kids can heal from what you do.. oh and STOP SLEEPING IN YOUR SONS BED WITH HIM THAT SICK AND I THINK YOUR DOING SOMETHING WRONG WITH THAT. Brian wrote: " Brian McAfee Feb 21, 2007 at 11:04 am Yes, my confidence is back :) Our family has never been better, thanks for the compliments. Their mother pops in and out from now and then and they do crave her attention. Pretty sad, because she lives only 20 minutes away. I’m still a little shy, but this show has really, really helped me reach out to neighbors and even strangers too who’ve seen us on TV. I’m very glad we did it!" YOU LIAR brian your a liar, your ex I’ll call her “S” has been fighting you since way before supper nanny for custody of HER kids. and what you posted below is all a lie just like most of what you said on tv.
and the last two post I was glad to see someone pull up the truth… and yea I will stand by what I am saying when i say you dont deserve those kids and i think any man who has more than 4 (or did you stop at 3) files of child abuse in file in public record should not be and will not be allowed to leave state with kids. and I will hope one day those kids can heal from what you do.. oh and STOP SLEEPING IN YOUR SONS BED WITH HIM THAT SICK AND I THINK YOUR DOING SOMETHING WRONG WITH THAT.

Brian wrote:

” Brian McAfee
Feb 21, 2007 at 11:04 am

Yes, my confidence is back :) Our family has never been better, thanks for the compliments. Their mother pops in and out from now and then and they do crave her attention. Pretty sad, because she lives only 20 minutes away. I’m still a little shy, but this show has really, really helped me reach out to neighbors and even strangers too who’ve seen us on TV. I’m very glad we did it!”

YOU LIAR

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