Comments on: The Grown-Ups Guide To Avoid Cheating http://www.blisstree.com/articles/the-grown-ups-guide-to-avoiding-cheating-45/ Family, Health, Home and Lifestyles Mon, 07 Dec 2009 15:54:05 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Michelle Smith http://www.blisstree.com/articles/the-grown-ups-guide-to-avoiding-cheating-45/comment-page-1/#comment-38583 Michelle Smith Tue, 28 Oct 2008 16:49:59 +0000 http://www.datingdames.com/the-grown-ups-guide-to-avoiding-cheating/#comment-38583 I agree, Leah. You and your husband have good instincts. I agree, Leah. You and your husband have good instincts.

]]> By: Leah http://www.blisstree.com/articles/the-grown-ups-guide-to-avoiding-cheating-45/comment-page-1/#comment-38581 Leah Tue, 28 Oct 2008 15:53:12 +0000 http://www.datingdames.com/the-grown-ups-guide-to-avoiding-cheating/#comment-38581 My husband and I established the opposite sex boundries before we were even married. Sure we have friends of the opposite sex - most are mutual friends even, but we don't allow ourselves time alone with those opposite sex friends purely out of respect for each other. Honor and Duty - two of the best characteristics a human can have in my book. My husband and I established the opposite sex boundries before we were even married. Sure we have friends of the opposite sex – most are mutual friends even, but we don’t allow ourselves time alone with those opposite sex friends purely out of respect for each other.
Honor and Duty – two of the best characteristics a human can have in my book.

]]> By: Michelle Smith http://www.blisstree.com/articles/the-grown-ups-guide-to-avoiding-cheating-45/comment-page-1/#comment-38677 Michelle Smith Tue, 28 Oct 2008 01:32:15 +0000 http://www.datingdames.com/the-grown-ups-guide-to-avoiding-cheating/#comment-38677 I like the idea of making rules for what you won't put up with. Very smart. Thanks for sharing your story, Lara. My boyfriend keeps his phone on him all the time. I've never tried to look at it. I like the idea of making rules for what you won’t put up with. Very smart.

Thanks for sharing your story, Lara.

My boyfriend keeps his phone on him all the time. I’ve never tried to look at it.

]]> By: Lara Kulpa http://www.blisstree.com/articles/the-grown-ups-guide-to-avoiding-cheating-45/comment-page-1/#comment-38678 Lara Kulpa Mon, 27 Oct 2008 23:50:35 +0000 http://www.datingdames.com/the-grown-ups-guide-to-avoiding-cheating/#comment-38678 Cautionary tale: If he demands his right to see an ex-girlfriend, for ANY REASON, without you present, he's going to cheat on you with her. Cautionary tale: If he makes quick movements to close his phone, or shut down a window on the computer when you walk into the room. He's cheating on you. (Okay, he could be planning a surprise for your birthday, so if it's not a gift-giving holiday approaching, he's cheating on you. If there is, wait it out, and if he still does it, he's cheating on you.) I like what this post says about honor and responsibility, being a grown up. I do think it's extremely childish in terms of selfishness to cheat on someone. It's self indulgent and lacking care or compassion for someone you at some point were supposed to love. I have three rules. Don't lie to me. Don't cheat on me. Don't abuse me. I let ONE man in my life break all three, never EVER again. Cautionary tale: If he demands his right to see an ex-girlfriend, for ANY REASON, without you present, he’s going to cheat on you with her.

Cautionary tale: If he makes quick movements to close his phone, or shut down a window on the computer when you walk into the room. He’s cheating on you. (Okay, he could be planning a surprise for your birthday, so if it’s not a gift-giving holiday approaching, he’s cheating on you. If there is, wait it out, and if he still does it, he’s cheating on you.)

I like what this post says about honor and responsibility, being a grown up. I do think it’s extremely childish in terms of selfishness to cheat on someone. It’s self indulgent and lacking care or compassion for someone you at some point were supposed to love.

I have three rules. Don’t lie to me. Don’t cheat on me. Don’t abuse me. I let ONE man in my life break all three, never EVER again.

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