Thursday Thirteen - 13 Birds Creating Memories in an Alzheimer’s Life

January 8, 2009 by Mary Emma Allen  
Filed under Diseases & Conditions

THURSDAY THIRTEEN
It may seen strange when I say there are 13 birds I connect with my Mother, or which bring back memories related to her, either during her Alzheimer’s days or before.  It may seem I’m “going to the birds” this week, since I wrote the post on National Bird Day.  But when I began writing about Mother’s memories of birds or of her in connection with those on our farm (particularly the ducklings), I realized there were humorous ones and nostalgic ones that our family might enjoy, too.
So here are 13:

  1. Ducks and ducklings - We raised a few of these on the farm and the mother ducks hatched a number of fluffy yellow babies each spring.
  2. Geese - We also had a few geese.  One old gander liked to chase us.  Mother would take a swipe at him with a pail of water and send him flying.
  3. Chickens - In addition to operating a dairy farm, Mother and Father raised several hundred chickens and sold eggs.  We children were kept busy helping with both operations.  In her Alzheimer’s years, Mother thought the chickens were in the backyard of her little retirement house and “fed” them bread crusts each afternoon.
  4. Baltimore Oriole - A pair built their nest and raised their young in a large tree in our back yard each year.  Mother pointed out their distinctive swinging nest and introduced us to their song.
  5. Robins - These, too, were occupants of our yard.  We liked to watch them pull worms from the ground.
  6. Pheasants - As a 4-H project, Mother encouraged us children to raise  the pheasants provided through the County 4-H.  The first time we hatched the pheasant eggs under brooding hens.  But the survival rate was better when we got the baby pheasants and raised them.  Then we let them go in designated areas in our fields.
  7. Red-winged blackbirds - We watched these birds with the distinctive red on their black wings flying and singing in the swampy areas of the pasture.
  8. Bluebirds - We looked for these in the orchard where Father raised apples to sell.  Another of the many farm projects we were involved in.
  9. Road runners - Mother enjoyed seeing these when she and Father traveled West to visit Jim and me when we was stationed at an Air Force base in Texas. 
  10. Bantam or banty chickens - Mother raised a few of these small hens and roosters, just for variety on our farm.  Actually I think there was one proud rooster strutting around with a number of hens.
  11. Turkeys - Mother’s brother raised these for sale on his farm.  It was fascinating to visit and listen to them “Gobble, gobble, gobble.”
  12. Peacocks - Another of Mother’s brothers had two peacocks and some pheasants on the farm. Watching the peacocks spread their colorful tails was an awesome sight for children.
  13. Hummingbirds - They made an appearance in summer and poked their long beaks into the flowers around the house.

As I jot down the various birds and the memories they evoke, I realize this is something anyone could do with Alzheimer’s family members.  Use them as memory joggers for your own family history ramblings, too.

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3 Responses to “Thursday Thirteen - 13 Birds Creating Memories in an Alzheimer’s Life”
  1. Krista says:

    Great idea! My dad remembers he had horses but he can’t go in to detail about it. Maybe if we talked with him more about it he might remember more.

    Thanks!

    Krista

    http://www.alzheimersteam.com

  2. Thanks for stopping by Alzheimer’s Notes, Krista, and sharing your thoughts. Yes, often if you talk with your Alzheimer’s family member about places, persons, things and events, they will remember more. These may be bits and pieces of memories that you’ll enjoy jotting down or recording for family history, too.

    Also, pull out some pictures, either actual family photos or simply pictures in magazines. These often will jog memories and initiate conversations.

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