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		<title>By: Good Enough To Warrant A Repeat Performance- Top 10 Lists</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Oct 2007 13:10:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Kristina at Autism Vox really hit home on the mommy thing when she listed Top 10 Things I Have Learned From Charlie And From Being Charlie’s Mother. [...]</description>
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		<dc:creator>Top 10 List Take 2- Come On Over And Check Them Out!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Oct 2007 13:03:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>[...] Kristina at Autism Vox really hit home on the mommy thing when she listed Top 10 Things I Have Learned From Charlie And From Being Charlie&#8217;s Mother. [...]</description>
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		<title>By: alicia</title>
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		<dc:creator>alicia</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Oct 2007 22:17:03 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I love your #8! So true.</description>
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		<title>By: Kristina Chew, PhD</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kristina Chew, PhD</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Oct 2007 20:48:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Amanda, I teach classical, Attic, Greek----it overlaps a lot with Koine. Our goal is to translate the originals; the progress is slow but persistent! No, I haven&#039;t tried to teach Charlie any Greek-----what&#039;s the pronunuciation on the CD?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Amanda, I teach classical, Attic, Greek&#8212;-it overlaps a lot with Koine. Our goal is to translate the originals; the progress is slow but persistent! No, I haven&#8217;t tried to teach Charlie any Greek&#8212;&#8211;what&#8217;s the pronunuciation on the CD?</p>
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		<title>By: Kristen King</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kristen King</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Oct 2007 19:00:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>This is a great list, Kristina. I love your attitude toward learning.

And here&#039;s the only Latin I remember, grammatically incorrect, of course: Semper ubi sub ubi. Thanks for the reminder that i should brush up. ;]

Kristen</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a great list, Kristina. I love your attitude toward learning.</p>
<p>And here&#8217;s the only Latin I remember, grammatically incorrect, of course: Semper ubi sub ubi. Thanks for the reminder that i should brush up. ;]</p>
<p>Kristen</p>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Oct 2007 18:40:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Teresa Finnegan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Teresa Finnegan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Oct 2007 18:20:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE				Contact:  Teresa Finnegan
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WILL SHOWS A WAY THROUGH AUTISM
Revised Edition of Mother’s Memoir Rekindles the Potential for Hope
	
“I was beginning to take for granted the fact that we could move through a morning, an afternoon, perhaps even a whole day without a flip-out or a freak-out,” writes Kelly Harland, the mother of Will, a boy with autism.  “Sometimes, in my indefatigable optimism, I get to a place where I really believe the whole nightmare is over.  But something eventually comes up again, out of the blue, in a flash, an electrifying bolt.”
	Seattle-based Harland, a teacher, singer, and writer, has masterfully captured these “flashes” in a compilation of evocative vignettes entitled A Will of His Own, Reflections on Parenting a Child with Autism [January 2008, Jessica Kingsley Publishers, $18.95, 978-1-84310-869-6].  
	Harland’s prose is vivid, her insight is razor sharp, and her story has merit for anyone who has ever experienced the utter vulnerabilities and joys, heartaches and little miracles which go along with raising a child not described as “typical.”  Her chapters involve sometimes frustrating and heartrending depictions of life with a child who reacts fearfully to everyday events such as checking out at the grocery store.  Yet, in the revised edition Harland adds glimpses of William in his teenage years that provide encouraging indications of hope, learning, and growth.  
	Harland writes, “Whatever has led us to this—years of speech therapy, hours upon hours of my own input based on instinct and a few educated guesses, his father’s incredible talent for showing him a way to walk through this world—William can see his dream, and it looks good.  In fact, it looks perfect.  And he’s telling me about it.” 
	Above all, it is the love for Will—for what he is, not for what he might have been—that shines through this book, and we get to know him as a charming, intriguing, and undeniably worthwhile human being.  “Those with autism may have a very different way of looking at the world from the rest of us,” writes Jane Asher, President of the National Autistic Society, in the book’s foreword, “but if we can just step back occasionally and see life through the eyes of those like him, we might learn, not only something about their problems and what we can do to help, but also about ourselves.” 

Kelly Harland is a Seattle vocalist, writer, and voice teacher.  She is on the faculty of the music department at the Cornish College of the Arts.  Her voice has been featured not only on radio and television, but also in backing vocals with Ray Charles and Etta James.  She has written articles for the magazine Autism Advocate and contributed to the Cup of Comfort book series.  She lives with her husband Chuck Deardorf, her mischievous cat Georgie, and her son William, who has autism.

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		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE				Contact:  Teresa Finnegan<br />
								<a href="mailto:teresa.finnegan@jkp.com">teresa.finnegan@jkp.com</a></p>
<p>WILL SHOWS A WAY THROUGH AUTISM<br />
Revised Edition of Mother’s Memoir Rekindles the Potential for Hope</p>
<p>“I was beginning to take for granted the fact that we could move through a morning, an afternoon, perhaps even a whole day without a flip-out or a freak-out,” writes Kelly Harland, the mother of Will, a boy with autism.  “Sometimes, in my indefatigable optimism, I get to a place where I really believe the whole nightmare is over.  But something eventually comes up again, out of the blue, in a flash, an electrifying bolt.”<br />
	Seattle-based Harland, a teacher, singer, and writer, has masterfully captured these “flashes” in a compilation of evocative vignettes entitled A Will of His Own, Reflections on Parenting a Child with Autism [January 2008, Jessica Kingsley Publishers, $18.95, 978-1-84310-869-6].<br />
	Harland’s prose is vivid, her insight is razor sharp, and her story has merit for anyone who has ever experienced the utter vulnerabilities and joys, heartaches and little miracles which go along with raising a child not described as “typical.”  Her chapters involve sometimes frustrating and heartrending depictions of life with a child who reacts fearfully to everyday events such as checking out at the grocery store.  Yet, in the revised edition Harland adds glimpses of William in his teenage years that provide encouraging indications of hope, learning, and growth.<br />
	Harland writes, “Whatever has led us to this—years of speech therapy, hours upon hours of my own input based on instinct and a few educated guesses, his father’s incredible talent for showing him a way to walk through this world—William can see his dream, and it looks good.  In fact, it looks perfect.  And he’s telling me about it.”<br />
	Above all, it is the love for Will—for what he is, not for what he might have been—that shines through this book, and we get to know him as a charming, intriguing, and undeniably worthwhile human being.  “Those with autism may have a very different way of looking at the world from the rest of us,” writes Jane Asher, President of the National Autistic Society, in the book’s foreword, “but if we can just step back occasionally and see life through the eyes of those like him, we might learn, not only something about their problems and what we can do to help, but also about ourselves.” </p>
<p>Kelly Harland is a Seattle vocalist, writer, and voice teacher.  She is on the faculty of the music department at the Cornish College of the Arts.  Her voice has been featured not only on radio and television, but also in backing vocals with Ray Charles and Etta James.  She has written articles for the magazine Autism Advocate and contributed to the Cup of Comfort book series.  She lives with her husband Chuck Deardorf, her mischievous cat Georgie, and her son William, who has autism.</p>
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For further information please contact:<br />
email: <a href="mailto:teresa.finnegan@jkp.com">teresa.finnegan@jkp.com</a></p>
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		<title>By: Casdok</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Oct 2007 17:09:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I learn something everyday!</description>
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		<title>By: Amanda M</title>
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		<dc:creator>Amanda M</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Oct 2007 13:40:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>good list! can identify especially with VI and VIII!

an aside:
latin, greek, and classical literature are unusual teaching subjects these days. do you teach classical or ecclesiastical? koine or attic? do you read translation- like fitzgerald? or do you have them translate the originals?
-Amanda
(&quot;classical&quot; homeschooler)
my classically autistic son&#039;s favorite cd lately is my daughter&#039;s greek pronunciation cd...</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>good list! can identify especially with VI and VIII!</p>
<p>an aside:<br />
latin, greek, and classical literature are unusual teaching subjects these days. do you teach classical or ecclesiastical? koine or attic? do you read translation- like fitzgerald? or do you have them translate the originals?<br />
-Amanda<br />
(&#8221;classical&#8221; homeschooler)<br />
my classically autistic son&#8217;s favorite cd lately is my daughter&#8217;s greek pronunciation cd&#8230;</p>
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		<title>By: Niksmom</title>
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		<dc:creator>Niksmom</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 16 Oct 2007 12:09:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>VIII and IX are perhaps the most important lessons for me; perspective and priorities with a good dollop of openness and humility.  Our children are amazing teachers, are they not?
My husband likes to say, &quot;When the student (meaning a doctor, teacher, therapist or other professional) is ready to learn, Nik will teach them; if they aren&#039;t, he will frustrate them.&quot; Wise insights for most of our kids.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>VIII and IX are perhaps the most important lessons for me; perspective and priorities with a good dollop of openness and humility.  Our children are amazing teachers, are they not?<br />
My husband likes to say, &#8220;When the student (meaning a doctor, teacher, therapist or other professional) is ready to learn, Nik will teach them; if they aren&#8217;t, he will frustrate them.&#8221; Wise insights for most of our kids.</p>
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