Top 5 tween behavior problems and fixes

According to the pro SuperNanny, Jo Frost…

The Top 5 tween behavior problems

1 Not listening He’ll either tune you out or brush you off.

2 Backchat and a bad attitude He’ll become fluent in talking back and sulk like there’s no tomorrow.

3 Refusing to obey He’s likely to throw a fit when asked to do something.

4 Bad language You didn’t know you raised a bilingual kid, did you? You’re about to find out!

5 Secrets and lies He’ll become secretive, and fib to avoid consequences

Top 5 parenting solutions

1 Speak quietly and calmly Avoid the nagging that kids simply tune out. Make eye contact and show by your tone and body language that you mean what you say.

2 Be clear about what’s acceptable Remember that some of his behavior is connected to a desire to try out adult roles and feel more independent. Stand firm on what you want from him but always make an effort to speak politely and respectfully.

3 Set fair boundaries Think about whether the behavior you expect is fair and age appropriate. Could you be flexible or negotiate? Is it time to review rules?

4 Watch your own language! State clearly if your rule is that no swearing is allowed, and what sanctions will follow.

5 Respect his privacy Respect your tween’s increasing need for privacy and independence as he grows – he may not want to tell you everything, and insisting on this can lead to lies. Explain why lying is wrong and stress that you value honesty.

Are there problems and fixes you’d like to add to this list?

We all know there are books upon books written about tweens and the issues parents have with them, but what are some that you’ve personally dealt with?

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