Two Boyfriends Are Better Than One
January 12, 2007 by Sasha Manuel
Filed under Relationships
Hmmm.
I guess for women who take on this kind of thinking when it comes to relationships are not-so-into monogamy, eh? ‘Does make you think, though. Why is having two boyfriends better than one? Of course, it’s a rip-off of the saying, “Two heads are better than one” and takes on a similar if not the exact, same concept. But they were refering to idea generation during meetings, plannings, or brainstorming sessions.
- Is it because each guy provides something that the other can’t? Is it to reinforce the girl’s attractiveness? Or it’s simply because the girl knows she can have two or more, even?
Perhaps there’s something about getting a taste of different types of “relationships” since the girl will be getting “inputs” from two different guys. Like in meetings, if ideas would come from just one person, the outcome may turn out to be not as exciting as getting ideas from two or more “heads”, to accomplish a goal.
For the girl, the idea of having just one boyfriend seems unsatisfying — quite similar to multi-dating or men having more than one girlfriend. I guess, this kind of thing is not limited to men, huh?
Now, it also peaked my curiosity when it comes to the guy’s side, are there guys who agrees to this kind of a set up? If yes, I’d like to know why. [I want to put an exclamation point at the end of that statement but decided not to --- egad.]
Discuss.
Photo credit: Rico Mossesgeld
omg
having two bfs is rele tearing me apart
i feel soo bad fer cheatin on my first bf
but sumtimes he can be an ass altho he rele does love me
the second one is insane over me
i hate lieng to them
i live a lie
ill prob loose both in the end if i dont choose btween one now
DONT DATE TWO GUYS believe me, its not worth it…
Wow…what a heartless, self-less girl, Claire you are.
Obviously, only self-love is all you are concerned about. You don’t give a shit about other people but you, you, you. Love is about caring, true deep caring of each other. It seems like you’re after sex and to satisfy your own needs.
daniela, not everybody is a living cliche. people have difficult lives and make mistakes. like radical judging.
I have two boyfriends, and i think it has nothing to do with cheating, or even getting an ego boost. It started off as a separate friendship but it ended up in me loving deeply both of them and they loving me deeply too in their own ways.
I think if there can be free sex, there can be free love too. you have to change vastly the concept of loving as is accepted socially and loving as is accepted and is ok by you (and your lovers). of course jealusy arises but once you believe and stand by your own concepts its a triviality.
Im thorn btwin both of them! And i rily detest double-dating but i luv them both.
#1 guy had been askn me out long b4 now but i kept posting him with d intention of acepting wen he came back from skul; not until #2 guy who hapens to be my best pal revealed his intentions…. They are both very inlove with me and very comited. #1 guy is 3 years older than me while #2 guy is my agemate.I hav diferent things in common wit both of them bt who to tel off is my problem…. I dont want 2 hurt either of them.
Relationships have varying degrees of commitment, intimacy, and obligations.
If the 2 guys both know about one another, then I dont see a problem.
Personaly, I wish a last GF had another guy on the side. She was so needy, and
demanding of my time, and attention. It was more than I wanted to give even though I loved her and cared about her. It turned me on thinking about her having sex with someone else as well. Unfortunately, she had no interest in seeing anyone else, but did latch on to a new guy and got married 2 months later.