Want to Get His Attention?

I reckon most women have had experiences on those moments wherein you find yourselves staring longingly at that one special guy as he walks past your cubicle or seat everyday. You know him sure enough but you just can’t get past the cordial greetings or occasional nods of acknowledgment. Sometimes, we’d find ourselves floating if or when that happens cuz it can only mean he knows we’re alive!

However, do we really resign ourselves to this perennial state of crushing? Complete with long sighs and stolen glimpses? Will we ever feel any hope that he’d really, truly pay attention?

Over the course of time, I’ve observed that one thing that can best help this sort of situation. You’ll probably laugh when you find out what it is since it’s really quite simple and you just might even say, “Oh, I know that!” So, what is it then?

Smile.

Flashing your pearly whites is a classic way of sending the guy proper signals — a clear invitation to connect. I’ve learned that guys can be as scared in initiating contact as much as any girl, and a smile can easily cure the uneasiness. It will tell them that you don’t bite and you’re interested to make contact.

A smile that reaches to the eyes, all warm and natural, is a great way to get his attention. But, of course, this may not be applicable to all men.

This is my personal opinion, which is based on observations and personal experinces. If you disagree with my formed theory, feel free to correct me.