What Is On Your Man List?
April 21, 2009 by Michelle Smith
Filed under Relationships
Hey, single lady, do you have a list? A list? Yes, a list. A piece of paper or maybe its a file in your lap top, where you’ve listed what you would like to find in a man.
*Funny
*Kind
*Strong
*Loyal
*Sexy
*Open-minded
*Likes kids
*Smart
*Patient
*Tall
*Between the ages of 37 and 45
*Some gray hair
*Smells good
*Values family
That is an excerpt from my list. I started with the bare bones, then I thought, “Funny, but also able to be still and quiet, because I need some peace, too.”
I can remember reading about a love spell of sorts where you make the list, then burn it and send it out into the Universe which may or may not be something that you’d like to try. Any excuse to buy a new scented candle works for me.
My friend, Scarlett, she sent me her list in an email awhile back. She had, “Man who reads,” on there. Oh, yeah, I thought, that would be wonderful, but I was worried that by putting that on my list, I’d be asking for too much. Within hours, I signed onto Facebook, where I saw that my old friend, a friend I felt crush-ish about, was talking about books. Hot damn, I thought, I’m hooked! A man who reads – not too much to wish for, at all.
Try the list idea. Burn it, hold onto it, revise it, whatever. The purpose is to examine exactly what you’d like to find in a partner. My theory is this – you are less likely to allow the wrong one to run you around if you have some idea of what the right one will look like.
Here’s an excerpt from Scarlett’s list:
*TEETH–the first thing I see when I look at a guy
*Color eyes, hair and all that are just part of the package so I would say it is their body language, smile and personality that makes them attractive to me.
*They do need to be in good shape too.
*Nice ass is good too but with the baggy style jeans you really can’t tell until they are naked and then it is too late–usually hooked on the person by then…
*Now for the heart of the matter, reader (more than magazines), thinker, kind, considerate, financially responsible (do not have to be rich or a sugar daddy) no couch potatoes or total lets-watch-every-sports-show-on-TV either.
*Must like the outdoors
*Occupation does not matter
*Must be in touch spiritually and like to socialize and travel…….
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Loved this post! Really makes me want to go out and buy a new candle and try that spell out. I really do not of it as a spell but rather giving it to the universe and letting whatever is suppose to be come into play. I have this one candle and I can never remember the name of it. My daughter’s friend said, ahhh, it smells like sexy man. Now that is the official name for that one. I do not think we should ever be “ascared” of asking for what we want. If we do not ask how will we ever get what turns us on?