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Wed, 05 Jul 2006 11:42:23 +0000

[...] Over on Dating Dames they’ve been discussing What Men Want Most which according to Dr Klayne Rasmussen a family and marriage therapist of Your Relationship Success is pretty much all about serving his egotistical needs. Now I have said it several times and I’ll say it again – the male body is made up of 75% water and the rest is ego and penis. We can fluff it up with different explanations as to what he may desire but it all ultimately comes back to making him feel like The Man. The following three ‘generalisations’ don’t come as any surprise…. [...]

By: lovefallacy

lovefallacy — Sun, 02 Jul 2006 11:36:00 +0000

I’ll say the article above is absolutely correct on what men want.

I’m sure van you have what you wanted out from a relationship as well. I mean this is what men want, is there anything to get over with? No!

If you are not satisfied with this kind of man, find someone that is suitable for you but chances are there’s still bad things about the man.

Like maybe he’s a wimp. Always seek for other approval, always suck up to you. And he doesn’t care how you treat him… is that what you want?

By: van

van — Sun, 02 Jul 2006 03:09:06 +0000

I even read stuff like this in my cosmopolitan magazine. Articles on how to get the guy or what not and it all talks about his ego…first of all I’m not heartless….second of all keep talking about their ego and I want to shove it down their throat and say grow up. So I just get tried of reading that crap. I am not a femi nazi or anything, but still, the guys need to get over it or then we wind up catering to them.

And as you said, wind up trying to go back to the June Cleaver days.

By: Gayla McCord

Gayla McCord — Sat, 01 Jul 2006 11:47:00 +0000

Very good point Van. I guess I’d never really thought of it that way but it does seem to be yanking us women back a few decades and encouraging the whole June Cleaver image doesn’t it?

I’ll see what I can find about “what a girl wants and what a girl needs” to provide a balance.

It almost seems as if women are expected to be mothers their entire adult lives – beit to their children or their spouses.

By: Van

Van — Fri, 30 Jun 2006 13:14:23 +0000

I just have to say that every time I read something like this I wonder why the hell it seems articles are always saying we need to cater to the male ego and not knock him down. Where are the articles about what they need to do, need to say, and how they need to act around us? I’m sorry if they are feeling less manly cause us women nowadays are more independent, but get over it and grow some balls and quit whining.

I’m sorry, but all this kind of articles feels like they are whining to me. Don’t get me wrong. I’ve read Men are from Mars….and other books of that type to get more of an insight into relationships and how the genders think differently, but those books do not have the tone of articles or writings like this. We poor men need you to help boost are manlihood or we feel wimpy and less of a man.