Who’s Willing To Tackle This?
January 3, 2009 by Mark
Filed under Diseases & Conditions
From “That Ain’t In The Book,”
“We must change playmates, playgrounds, and playthings”
Page 100-101: “Assuming we are spiritually fit, we can do all sorts of things alcoholics are not supposed to do. People have said we must not go where liquor is served; we must not have it in our homes; we must shun friends who drink; we must avoid moving pictures which show drinking scenes; we must not go into bars; our friends must hide their bottles if we go to their houses; we mustn’t think or be reminded about alcohol at all. Our experience shows that this is not necessarily so.
We meet these conditions every day. An alcoholic who cannot meet them, still has an alcoholic mind; there is something the matter with his spiritual status. His only chance for sobriety would be some place like the Greenland Ice Cap, and even there an Eskimo might turn up with a bottle of scotch and ruin everything!”
Which is effectively telling us that saying, in AA, that we must change our playmates, playgrounds and playthings isn’t necessarily correct – to the Basic Text of Narcotics Anonymous, which tells us (pg. 16);
“The ultimate weapon for recovery is the recovering addict. We concentrate on recovery and feelings not what we have done in the past. Old friends, places and ideas are often a threat to our recovery. We need to change our playmates, playgrounds and playthings.”
Thoughts?















I can’t see myself ever taking issue with anything written in the Big Book. This, like every word in the book, is spot on. My experience tells me that when I am WILLING to respect my own boundaries, its humility in action, and therefore, it helps my sobriety.
Thanks for the blog. Helpful and important.
Much appreciated Neal
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