Comments on: Why Is Everyone Else Getting Engaged? http://www.blisstree.com/articles/why-is-everyone-else-getting-engaged/ Family, Health, Home and Lifestyles Fri, 25 Dec 2009 00:31:23 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Sad and broken-hearted http://www.blisstree.com/articles/why-is-everyone-else-getting-engaged/comment-page-1/#comment-327220 Sad and broken-hearted Sun, 28 Jun 2009 10:51:24 +0000 http://www.blisstree.com/?p=96512#comment-327220 My friend and her "then" boyfriend would argue off and on about that same thing. They've been together for 5 years now and she was wondering if he'd ever propose. She would try and drop subtle hints that somehow progressed to complete directness and he would just tell her that he'd been married before and didn't want to do it again. This hurt her so much. She felt like she was being punished for what his first wife had done to him. My fiancee and I are engaged now. He proposed to me after a year and a half together. Right now we can't financially afford to get married and we still have some things to work out. And I'm happy to say that my friend's boyfriend also proposed to her and she's so happy :) They're not rushing the wedding date. She just wanted to know that she wasn't waiting for nothing. That their commitment would end with a promise, vow, and exchange of "that kiss" in church in front of family and friends. I believe you're right.. everyone is different, every relationship is different. I would just hate for my relationship to have ended like Farrah Fawcett's. Yes, they loved eachother. Yes, they may have been happy. But I don't think their love was complete. It was like a 500 pc puzzle, missing that one piece in the puzzle. My mom says she had finally said yes to his proposal and they were going to get married after she got well. I looked it up. People magazine online wrote: "Though O'Neal recently said that he and Fawcett had planned to wed, they did not tie the knot. "There just wasn't time, and Farrah wasn't in any condition to do it," says O'Neal. I think that's sad, very sad. If you love someone, then I think after so many years you should make the commitment solid with marriage, before it's too late. R.I.P. Farrah Fawcett 1947-2009 My friend and her “then” boyfriend would argue off and on about that same thing. They’ve been together for 5 years now and she was wondering if he’d ever propose. She would try and drop subtle hints that somehow progressed to complete directness and he would just tell her that he’d been married before and didn’t want to do it again. This hurt her so much. She felt like she was being punished for what his first wife had done to him.

My fiancee and I are engaged now. He proposed to me after a year and a half together. Right now we can’t financially afford to get married and we still have some things to work out.

And I’m happy to say that my friend’s boyfriend also proposed to her and she’s so happy :) They’re not rushing the wedding date. She just wanted to know that she wasn’t waiting for nothing. That their commitment would end with a promise, vow, and exchange of “that kiss” in church in front of family and friends.

I believe you’re right.. everyone is different, every relationship is different. I would just hate for my relationship to have ended like Farrah Fawcett’s. Yes, they loved eachother. Yes, they may have been happy. But I don’t think their love was complete. It was like a 500 pc puzzle, missing that one piece in the puzzle. My mom says she had finally said yes to his proposal and they were going to get married after she got well. I looked it up. People magazine online wrote: “Though O’Neal recently said that he and Fawcett had planned to wed, they did not tie the knot. “There just wasn’t time, and Farrah wasn’t in any condition to do it,” says O’Neal.

I think that’s sad, very sad. If you love someone, then I think after so many years you should make the commitment solid with marriage, before it’s too late.

R.I.P. Farrah Fawcett 1947-2009

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