What Would You Do: Spilling the beans
May 16, 2007 by Sasha Manuel
Filed under Relationships
What if you find yourself in a situation that the guy you had a fling with started to spill the beans? What would you do?
To be honest, if this sort of thing happens, I’d be totally shocked at the audacity of the man. I would never expect that a guy would spill it make himself look like the victim. The idea makes me laugh and question the guy’s masculinity (wouldn’t you?). 
No offense to the women but it’s something I know a girl would do. I’m not saying that it’s the right thing to do, it’s just something that I’ve observed that women do. It’s shared in confidence with people she trusts and a way to seek help, in most cases, and NOT revenge (though I’m not discounting it).
But for a man to initiate the act, it’s baffling. What would cause him to do such a thing? Considering that it was just a fling and he is the man after all. That would generally give him several pats on the back from his pals, right? But to cry foul? Gah.
To answer the question (after my opinionated quasi-analysis 
), he’d get an earful from me, given the chance, basically telling him how much of a coward and a wuss, I think he is. Go home and hide under your momma’s skirt, sissy boy. 
More importantly, though, what would you guys do?
The guy is probably gay. Or maybe he just couldn’t take such a hot babe. And, yeah this is so funny.
Sounds like the guy might be a bit of an emotional sponge where it doesn’t matter what the situation is, he’s always the victim. The girl should consider herself lucky it was just a fling
Obviously this guy needs help! He sounds like the type of guy who would do just about anything to gain popularity…to be noticed. What, are you running for Mr. Popularity?!
What would I do if I were this guy’s target?! Laugh it off! I don’t have time for wimps! And yeah! Thank God it was only a short-lived fling!
Aileen: Yea, the post is funny, huh? Though, the act should not be taken lightly. I simply don’t agree that a guy would do such a thing.
Gayla: I agree! The girl should focus more on how fortunate she is that it’s over. Flings are not that important, huh?
Eilanna: I’m not sure where you got the idea that the guy is trying to gain popularity, saving face perhaps? But it’s good to know that you’d rise above the situation and not deal with guys who are capable of doing such an act.