Comments on: Everything You Wanted to Know about Breastfeeding, Sex and Breast Milk Fetishes but Were Afraid to Ask

By: a muslim

a muslim — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 22:53:21 +0000

In our religion, if you drink any girl’s breast-milk, that girl becomes equal to your mother and then, u can not have sex with her. Breast-feeding is good only and only for children and not for the adults. Science will find this fact one day or the other. I bet!

By: michael

michael — Sun, 15 Nov 2009 14:15:14 +0000

Wow its nice to find out that i am not the only one! My GF has been nursing me for about four years and I can totally relate with the people who mentiond thats its a really intense bonding experience. We dont have kids but about 4 weeks after we met she started lactating-we learned later no baby necessary just alot of continual stimulation-oops. Im guilty but I cant help it- she is the sexiest woman alive! Anyway from the first few drops I tasted I knew I liked that stuff- tastes like whipped cream on a vanilla sundae- and from seeing how aroused she got when nursing me it was just a win win and and we never stopped and dont plan too! We get in at least two and sometimes three sessions a day- a nice long slow one till they are both empty when we first wake up and always before we go to sleep. and anytime they get too full:) -anyway to any guy who wonders- if you have the chance to try it quit wondering!

By: naynay

naynay — Thu, 12 Nov 2009 01:28:45 +0000

I’ve gotten pregnant twice while nursing so don’t think that will prevent it. The trick to ANR is when you have your baby to really keep nursing your him/her as long as possible. Three years is the longest I’ve gone. That way my husband didn’t have to come home from work to nurse me-but I was ready for him in the evening and always first thing in the morning (we do a long nurse first thing before the kids get up so I can start my day peacefully and many times with an orgasm). After two years or so I’ve gotten pregnant again and re-started the cycle. I’m now well into my third pregnancy and because I’ve been nursing consistently for 5 years my new milk has come in. It’s great to feel that rush again.

By: Joseph Murphy

Joseph Murphy — Sat, 22 Aug 2009 07:22:13 +0000

Hi
I’m a man my self 53 and married to a lady who is beyond lactation her self.
What would it take for a man such as my self.
To breastfeed with a adult partner.
I’ve never drink a lady’s breast milk before.
heard it is quite good.

By: Julia Nhlapo

Julia Nhlapo — Thu, 20 Aug 2009 13:27:55 +0000

how will sex affect my baby – because i am breasfeeding is there anything is should be aware of or becareful of whilst i am breastfeeding – will the sperms harm my baby anyhow?

Another question – what are the possibilities of me falling pregnant whilst i am breastfeeding, my son is 5 months old?

By: Willie

Willie — Tue, 04 Aug 2009 17:01:41 +0000

I have always been very physically attracted to my wife but when she began breastfeeding the attraction spiked. This was very unfortunate timing as her sexual desire naturally fell. It was particularly distasteful for her for me to suckle as she, in her words, “had a hard time shifting gears” between feeding our baby and engaging in sexuality. I respect my wife and always wish to avoid pursuing whatever made her uncomfortable. A few times she became engorged and asked me to relieve her which were highly erotic experience for me. She is currently expecting and I know this will be a difficult time. Lactation takes place for a relatively short time in a woman’s life and I know that it is unlikely we will have a fourth child. I asked for her blessing to continue after she weaned our child, which she was not interested in being a part of. I so long to suckle and nurse from her but also choose to honor and respect her boundaries. Silly as it sounds, this is one of my life’s greatest disappointments, there are no good answers.

By: Angela White, J.D., breastfeeding counselor

Angela White, J.D., breastfeeding counselor — Thu, 28 May 2009 17:01:45 +0000

Hi CG – thanks for your comment. You mentioned that you have been bottle feeding with formula due to medication. I just want to make sure you’re aware of a wonderful free resource on the web that allows you to look up any medication to see if it’s okay to take while breastfeeding. Unfortunately many doctors and even pharmacists are not very knowledgeable about lactation and medications and tell women they must formula-feed when it’s really not necessary. Go to:

http://toxnet.nlm.nih.gov/cgi-bin/sis/htmlgen?LACT

and type in the brand name or generic name of the drug. If you need help with the information or with getting breastfeeding going, be sure to contact a local La Leche League leader for free breastfeeding support:

http://www.llli.org/WebUS.html

Good luck!

By: CG

CG — Thu, 28 May 2009 06:34:02 +0000

Me and my wife just had our first baby by c section and because of medication we have been bottle feeding her with formula. a few nights after we got home her breast were sore and I guess engourged?. I decided to rub and massage them for her. After a few minutes she was becomiing aroused as was I… I mean she was really enjoying it…. Me too.. Well one thing leads to another and soon I was …breast feeding from her. I didn’t realize it at the time but afterwards she expressed how personal it was to her. I mean really personal. After she told me that I started to feel the same way, after all the next step in bonding with your baby after incubation and birth is breast feeding. After talking about it she started to feel like she had taken that bonding away from our baby, like she cheated it. As awkward as it feels afterwards the feeling of connection I felt with her was amazing. Her holding my head as I well… you know… it WAS a very deep feeling. The taste and texture of her milk reminds me of a watery warm international delights vinilla creamer not exactly sweet but rich. Kinda made me a little sick it was so rich… I wouldn’t call our experiance sexual it was more intimate, afterall, I was drinking life from her… IF you decide to try this remember that there are deaper emotions involved, don’t drink too much and talk about your feelings afterwards… BTW I’m 25 my wife is 20. not sure if that matters just thought I would add it.

By: Tina

Tina — Mon, 04 May 2009 22:38:14 +0000

I breast fed both my children, but the youngest is now 12. I have a new BF of a few months, and we are deeply in love, we just realized that I have began lacating, I guess from pretty regular stimulation. I was afraid it might weird him out, but it did not. I had to read up on it to make sure this was normal. I am looking forward to bonding with him and being able to breast feed him. It definately creates a very pleasurable sensation all over the body, and from what I have read, it creates a deep sense of bonding, which I think is the most important reason to do it. I don’t know if I will become completely engorged, but I am looking forward to trying to, and my BF says he’s happy to help. All though it is sexual, at the same time it is not, it is the most comforting calming effect on a woman.

By: Merry Maiden

Merry Maiden — Tue, 17 Mar 2009 22:02:46 +0000

It is not weird for men to like breasts! Functioning, warm, and sweet tasting ones are all the more feminine.

I nursed all of my many children, and my husband gladly helped when I needed it. After a while he was OFTEN concerned; “Do you need my help?” It was also a normal part of our love making. Eventually, he would just snuggle in and finish off whatever the baby left before we fell asleep.

The children are all grown now, and four months ago I started lactating again. It has made us even closer. It has also revived our sex life.

He never acts like a baby, and I never act like his mother. My husband is a very masculine man who just knows how to appreciate all thing feminine and sweet about me. He loves lace, high heels, lipstick, soft curves, and a bosom that has milk.