1. Double any gift given before December 31, 2009. Generous donors have agreed to match dollar-for-dollar any donation made between now and December 31, 2009. Your financial contribution will go twice as far in supporting breastfeeding mothers around the world.

2. Help fix what has gone wrong. The need for mother-to-mother breastfeeding support is greater than ever! As a breastfeeding advocate it saddens me that mothers continue to receive bad advice and misinformation from many of the medical professionals that provide care to new mothers and their nurslings. Somewhere along the way we lost the model of grandmothers, mothers, aunts, sisters and neighbors gathering to rally around the new mother with advice and support. La Leche League works to fill that gap by offering breastfeeding education during a woman’s pregnancy followed by telephone and in-person individual and group support after the birth.

3. Give a little back for what you have received. If you were lucky enough to receive breastfeeding support from a La Leche League leader, group or member, now is the time to say “thank you” by making a contribution in honor of your supporters.

4. Non-profit organizations like LLLI need financial support now more than ever. In an economic downturn, non-profit organizations suffer as much or more than corporations do. The number and size of donations go down just as the demand for services goes up! Help supply LLLI with the funds to meet the demand (that was a little breastfeeding reference, in case you missed my awesome word play there ).

5. Charity Accreditation. La Leche League International is a Better Business Bureau (BBB) accredited organization that meets all 20 of the BBB Standards for Charity Accountability.

So what are you waiting for? Give thanks this holiday season by giving to La Leche League International and your your-end gift will be doubled in value!

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View from my balcony at the Newport Beach Marriott Hotel & Spa

While I attended lectures in the conference rooms for the La Leche League of Southern California/Nevada area conference, my husband watched the older two girls. They never even made it to the beach they were having so much fun swimming in one of the hotel’s three pools, playing in the hotel sand play area, or doing crafts organized by the hotel staff. None of us wanted to go home!

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Simply right click on the image, “save image as” to your computer, upload it to your site and link it to the World Breastfeeding Week page at LLL USA.

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Your thoughts?

What does the theme “Breastfeeding: Prepared for Life” bring to mind for you? Have you begun planning for WBW 2009? What are your ideas for an event? (Stumped? Check out these Ideas for Successful World Breastfeeding Week Fundraisers and Events.)

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What has your breastfeeding experience been like?

Joyful. I’ve had a few challenges along the way. I’m still nursing my fourth child so my breastfeeding days will probably be over in another year. I’m sure I’ll miss it!

With my first, things were a little rough at first. He had issues with thrush, and it took us nearly a year to beat that entirely. I was nervous and worried about my supply like many new moms, so I switched him back and forth constantly, leading to a foremilk/hindmilk imbalance which led to fussiness and gassiness. When I learned to keep him on one side for an entire feeding, sometimes two, things improved. One of my soapbox issues is moms who think they have low milk supply and don’t. I’ve also nursed through 3 pregnancies and tandem nursed. All of my kids have had to share with a sibling at some point! It’s been a real joy.

What led you to become a La Leche League Leader?

My experience with LLL goes back to my own start as a nursing infant. I was 5 days old and my mother had to go back to the hospital for some testing overnight. The story is that I refused bottles and she was determined to not let a drop of formula pass my lips! I always had a good feeling about LLL because she told me that women from the local group donated expressed milk for me. Then when I started having challenges with my firstborn, I called LLL. The leader was so understanding and took so much time with me, and I started going to meetings when my baby was 5 weeks old. The rest is history!

What did you enjoy about being a Leader?

I enjoyed helping moms. I also loved being around such wonderful parents. It was edifying to see these amazing women from all walks of life who had so much in common by virtue of their shared parenting philosophy. I just wanted to soak all of that up as a new mom. I felt like I had found my tribe.

What were the most common questions you received as a Leader?

I don’t think I could point to a common question because each mom was so different. But as I said, one of my favorite myths is the predominant thinking in our society that breastfeeding and having enough milk is rare or hard. Other mammals who give birth to litters simply do not have this issue, because they don’t interfere with birthing moms and they don’t interfere and overmanage breastfeeding.

What do you wish expectant and new mothers knew about breastfeeding?

That natural doesn’t mean easy. Everything has a learning curve. That every baby is different. To forget what babies or moms are “supposed” to do.

What is the impression you would like others to have of LLL?

I can’t understand why some mothers view LLL as breastfeeding Nazis. In my experience, leaders were the most compassionate, understanding and caring women on the planet. I never sensed judgment from them. When mothers feel that way, I know it’s coming from their own insecurities and issues. It’s not an external thing.

How has your perspective on breastfeeding and motherhood changed as your children have gotten older?

I’ve gotten a lot more relaxed and more forgiving of myself and of children. When you’re a new mom, you worry that everything is meaningful and it’s not. If your two year old won’t say please and thank you, it makes no difference. He’ll be doing it when he’s ten if he hears you doing it, and he won’t grow up to be an axe murderer if he hits a child on the playground either. LOL! I’m a lot more trusting of children now. I also give myself permission to be imperfect. If I have a bad day and don’t live up to my own expectations, that’s ok. The other day my oldest child said to me, “Mom, you can’t stay mad for one minute!” I considered that an ultimate compliment. It means I know how to put things in perspective and move on, and have more joy with my kids.

What are you focusing your time and energy on now?

I’m a single mom now so my focus is on taking care of my kids financially, emotionally and spiritually while unschooling them. It’s a blast!

Thanks Carrie! It was so interesting to hear your breastfeeding story and your perspective on La Leche League!

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Betty initiated flex hours and a family-friendly workplace in the ’60s, long before they became the popular perks they are today. Business hours at the La Leche League International office were set to allow mothers to be home with their children after school. Betty’s ideas about work teams and home offices were also far ahead of their time.

Keep in mind that year-end donations to LLL are being matched by generous donors, so it would be a lovely tribute to Betty to make a donation in her honor.

~ A new study of over 100,000 interviews with parents from the National Child Health Study revealed that breastfeeding can have a positive impact on a child’s behavior:

Parents of children who were breast-fed were 15 percent less likely to be concerned about their child’s behavior, compared to formula-fed infants. And the breast-fed children were 37 percent less likely to have a medically diagnosed behavioral or conduct problem, according to the study.

Thanks to reader Kelley for the link!

~ This year’s Quintessence Foundation Breastfeeding Challenge had a fantastic turnout with 357 sites in 18 countries! View the 2008 results here!

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Here are some things that might help:

~ Here’s how to pronounce La Leche League
~ There are regular series meetings that rotate through four general topics, but you can go to any meeting and ask any question, any time!
~ Meetings are offered in the daytime or the evening or both, depending on the area
~ Of course you can bring your baby, older nursling, and any older children too! Some groups welcome spouses as well — make sure to ask first!
~ You do not need to be breastfeeding to attend a meeting! It’s very helpful to attend when you are pregnant, or to continue attending even after you wean to help support other mothers. Doctors, nurses, students, grandmothers, and others are also welcome to attend (it’s nice to give the leader a heads-up in advance if you plan to show up, so the leader can be of most assistance and maybe even pass on free brochures to hand out!)
~ Meetings are free and while you are welcome and encouraged to join La Leche League, you can keep going to as many meetings as you like without actually joining.
~ In addition to the regular series meetings, there are toddler groups, groups for mothers of multiples, couples meetings, enrichment meetings, and informal park days or playgroups!
~ Usually there are snacks (depending on the location and group)
~ Often the group has a free lending library and you can check out birth, breastfeeding, and parenting books approved by LLLI!

Ready to go to a meeting?

~ You can use the LLLI tools to find a local group in the United States or other countries.
~ You can also search with a search engine tool like Google, using “La Leche League [your city or your state]” and you might find a website for your local group. Typical group websites include contact information for the local leaders and the date, time, and location of the next meeting. It’s always a good idea to call or email to confirm the information is up to date.
~ You can also reach an accredited La Leche League leader near you by calling 1-800-LA-LECHE (1-800-525-3243) and following the directions to find a leader by using your zip code. In Canada, telephone 1-800-665-4324, or (514) LA-LECHE for a French-speaking Leader.

Photo courtesy of: Generation X-Ray

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One of the best baby gifts Nicole and I received was a donation in our honor to La Leche League by Tanya, Sinead, Andi, and Jennifer. I was touched by the thoughtful gift, and pleased that one of my favorite charities would benefit.

Gift Matching for Donations to La Leche League

If you are thinking of making a year-end donation to charity this year, give to La Leche League now and your tax-deductible gift will be doubled by generous donors! Long-time supporters and La Leche League International (LLLI) Board and staff will match your donation dollar-for-dollar, up to $50,000, between now and December 31, 2008!

Where Will My Contribution Go?

LLLI has several exciting new projects to support for 2009. Your donation will be used to (1) create “new mother packets” of breastfeeding information for “Baby-Friendly Hospitals” in the United States, (2) develop informational breastfeeding videos, (3) translate, print, and distribute LLLI materials, and (4) update The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding, and create pocket guides for that book and The Breastfeeding Answer Book.

How Do I Make a Donation?

To make your gift now and have it doubled, click here!

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