Splat! – ?
March 15, 2007 by Noreen Crone-Findlay
Filed under knitting

In February, I got really depressed.
I had a major ’splat’ -it felt like a very bleak and joyless time.
I usually am full of beans and have a million projects, ideas, concepts, lists, thoughts, sketches and more, galloping around in my mind. But, in February………
splat.
I would look at my sketches and go……’so what’?
I felt very dis-connected from my sense of a future and from my sense of joy and delight.
I was not a lot of fun to be around. I sure didn’t want to write about what I was feeling, so my blogs went :
~splat~
It seems to me that I am not the only one who went
’splat’………..
People are posting to various lists that I am on, saying that they are going through a slump in motivation, a feeling of despair, or are just plain depressed………
Well…….. you’re not alone! I am glad that other people are fessing up to their ’splats’ too!
Whaddya do about it?
There are some things that really do help:
Connect to other people…… talk to people that you trust……..
EXERCISE! (hard one for me when I am blotto- but as soon as I get moving again, my stagnation and feelings of being stuck start to dissipate)…….
And, really big one:
Dig into the things that you KNOW you love:
Push away the critical self talk that pulls the rug out from under you……..
and, remember the joy that you do have in creating!
Last, but not least:
The one that really works for me, is to keep saying:
Thank you.
Thank you.
Thank you…….
- needless to say, if you’ve got a medical condition that needs to be dealt with, DO!
But if you’re going through ’splat’ -
remember -
You’re not alone, and joy is just around the corner.
thank you
Now, get out your yarn, your spoolknitter, your crochet hook, your knitting needles, your loom…. and PLAY!
Joy!
hugs all round, and thank you……..
Noreen

















I am so glad that you are doing better. I think that February is a hard month for many people. I bring out my colors, yarn and needles and play to get me through some of the darker days. I have a question for you about one of your other blogs that seems to have disappeared. The sacred dolls and bears blog is not coming up and it had such wonderful ideas and I was needing to create my own peace offering and now I can’t find it. May your spirits continue to lift and take you soaring.
Blessings,
MEW
Hi Martha
Thanks so much… yep, I am sure pleased to be feeling like ‘me’ again, and over the ’splat’! I agree that yarn is one great healer!
Sacred Dolls and Bears has been shut down, but, the plan is to ‘migrate’ the entries over to hankering for yarn….. I’m not sure when it’s going to happen. Soon, I hope~!
blessings
Noreen
Thank you for posting this – I think people get scared or ashamed about talking about depression… and if you can’t share what’s happening – it makes it so much worse!
You are so welcome, Chloe…. I know that when I ’splat’, I assume that people will not want to hear about it….. so, I think that it is actually good when someone does acknowledge that they feel wretched! Talking about it to someone else is very healing. There is so much that can be done to help alleviate depression.
Here’s to joy!