Comments on: How to Get Over a Broken Heart

By: Oh BOY !!

Oh BOY !! — Sun, 06 Dec 2009 07:09:00 +0000

wow.. first of all… ending your life/wanting to end your life over a guy is completely stupid! i know how u feel because i have beeen through a rough breakup a few months ago, but look at it this way: if hes not willing to waste his time, energy and tears on YOU, then why should YOU do that for him?!?!! heartbreak is probably one of the worst pains in the world, yet rememeber this “a guy worth your tears will NEVER make you cry” .. i have been thru harsh breakups before but as time went by, my hurt went away and honestly i met this truly amazing guy and we dated for 10 months and we ended a few months ago and yes im sad as hell, but there are so many guys out there that are good and committed and that really comforts me. i hope i helped and just rememeber you are not alone we’ve all been thru it, and if not, their turn will come:)

By: whyri

whyri — Sat, 05 Dec 2009 05:24:16 +0000

man,
after reading some of the stories up here i cant help but relate and take solace in other people’s grief.mine is just another sad love story. been with this guy a good four years and only to discover two days ago that he been sleeping with just about everyone around the block.and when i say everyone i mean everyone.
I cant tell for how long it has been going on.for some reason that doesn’t even matter. much as that hurts the icing on the cake is the lame excuses and lies he is showering me with in the name of its because “he cares for me”. and brushing and laughing off.
He was my first, first for many of my experiences. now all i have is this uncontrollable hate, how does your best friend, the one whom you trust betray you so deep.
Life in the end must go on but with a big chunk of my heart missing. My ability to love and trust in any man ever again. But this is a different kind of hurt i feel. its so deep i am at a loss.Just pray for strength because i am slowly losing it.

By: mulli

mulli — Sat, 05 Dec 2009 01:53:21 +0000

SO, i saw this and i was reading everything and it really helped. I started dating this guy right before school let out last year. School let out so we were then living very far apart, but we kept in touch, and even got to meet up a couple times. He came up and met my family. I really liked him, and i fell really fast. I knew better, but i thought this was perfect and it would work out and be different. He had been staying at school all summer, and he went home for a couple weeks right before school started. While he was home, i noticed he was kinda different when we would talk and stuff, but i figured it was just that he was only home for a short time and was super busy with stuff there. Well, school started and we were finally able to be together, and he wasn’t as super sweet as he was before, but he explained that he had some different issues going on and i totally understood and agreed with him. We kept dating and it seems like it was for forever, but i know it really was just a few months. Things seemed so close to perfect, and he talked like he really liked me and was really serious, and i let myself fall farther and farther for him. Then he says he needs to figure some stuff out, and we go on a break. So i’m counting down the days til it’s over. Then his best friend says he doesn’t think we’re going to get back together because of drama with his parents, because they don’t speak english and he must think i’m a total idiot or something that i wouldn’t be able to learn another language… Anyways, i totally had a melt down and cried and cried and cried. I had not considered us not getting back together as being a possibility. He found out i cried and told my brother that he did not say that and that he still liked me. so this gave me a little hope, but i did not want to be excited, because i wanted to play this smart so as not to be too hurt. Well, i’m dumb, and even though we were completely not talking for this break, he text me a couple times, and i text him back, just to let him know i was still thinking about him. Well, now, everytime he sees me, his eyes don’t light up or he doesn’t smile at me anymore. And i’m pretty sure he’s asking other girls out now. Which is fine. It just hurts lots cuz we talked about our future, and it sounded so good to me, and i thought he really liked me, and would even love me someday, but i guess not. It just hurts to see how i could see in the way he looked and acted with me that he really did care, but now he looks at me like i’m a nobody, and i don’t even matter. I was so happy because i finally found someone who was normal, nice, super cute, and had everything together. i guess it was too good to be true. I’m trying not to be a big baby, but sometimes seeing him having such a good time with other people makes me so sad, like i wish he could at least be a little bit sad that we weren’t “us” anymore. And our break isn’t formally over, so i don’t know what to do. I don’t want to go and be like, “i’m Done”, but i’m really ready to be over this being in the middle thing and not knowing what he’s thinking. I know this is dumb, and people on here have a lot worse problems, but this is helping me just writing it all out. And i hate sleeping now. It’s easier being awake, because when i’m awake i know reality and i deal with it, but when i’m sleeping, i dream about him and in my dreams we’re best friends again. Then i wake up, and it’s all gone. … I know i’m going to make it through this, even though sometimes it doesn’t feel like it! I’m strong, just hurting so very much.

By: David l jaeger

David l jaeger — Fri, 04 Dec 2009 22:13:14 +0000

my wife has fallen out of love with me and its my fault. i was to self centered and wasnt caring enough to show her the love she desperatly needed, as well as verbally and emotionally abusive. i know i deserve what i am receiving but it still hurts so bad. shes got a good friend down from mariland who always been there to protect her. i know he will take care of her and not hurt her, but please tell me how to get my head and heart to stop hurting so bad. i fear suicide might become a better idea than it has already been, and easier

By: MaggieMay

MaggieMay — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 21:51:44 +0000

Tom,
Am dying to know…did you go get her?!
It is so reassuring (gives me hope!) that you learned so much about yourself and were willing to try!
I hope you got your happy ending.
MaggieMay

By: lizzy

lizzy — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 01:10:19 +0000

I constantly ask myself why we fell for them. And why we mean nothing to them?? How does that make amy sense

By: Lizzy

Lizzy — Thu, 03 Dec 2009 01:05:52 +0000

I dont live out there, sorry i live in California. I dont understand why they do us this way. I sometimes do believe that good people always finish last. How long were u dating for?

By: Rubi890

Rubi890 — Wed, 02 Dec 2009 20:34:50 +0000

Well im a 13 year old girl…I have fallen in love with some1 in the internet some ppl say i cant fall in love in the internet if i dont know the guy but i could…o and some say im 2 young and shit! but i think that it doesnt matter what age u are you can fall in love at any age. Well i fall in love in this website called runescape.com lol i know its sorta nerdy. I met this super sweet, caring, nice, and he was soooo funny at first we started as really close friends. then like 1 day he told me he loved me but i didnt say it back 2 him right away cause i was away from the keyboard lol but then i saw what he said but he logged out when he came back he told me that he had tripped and had 2 go 2 the hospital. I was fucking scared lol we just kept on talking for like 14min cause he was waiting 4 his friend 2 pick him up. He told me that he loved me again but this time in spanish, he said “Te Quiero” that means i like u in spanish but he thought it was i love u so i just saidi like you 2. he got sad lol when he was leaving i said i love u and hes like “YOU DO”!!!!! he was soooo happy and i was 2. but what really sucks is that we cant see each other cause we live so far away. I cry sooo much for him. i need him. Hes the 1st person i had ever said i love u. I really want him with me…..

By: Candice

Candice — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 15:54:55 +0000

Aww I’m crying just reading this my boyfriend left me for a fat ugly girl on thanks giving also if u live NYC we can talk always good to talk

By: Candice

Candice — Tue, 01 Dec 2009 15:51:26 +0000

I feel ur pain I wake up crying I go to sleep crying my bf of seven months played me so dirty . I don’t know how you talk about someone so dirty and stuff and then go back to them I don’t get it I’m lost confused angry . He broke my heart and I don’t know sometimes I can’t eat I don’t feel like it u ever been with someone who is a lier and didn’t show his true colors until the end well meet my ex . Ladies it’s ok to cry it’s ok to not want to eat I feel. Ur pain