Sexbolt Saturday: Condom Negotiation
October 17, 2009 by Marijke Durning, RN
Filed under Sex, Sexbolt Saturday
When it comes to dirty jokes and crude movies, we don’t seem to have much problems talking about sex in today’s world. But what about when it becomes between just you and him? Just the two of you and your new relationship. How easy is it to talk about sex then? Easy enough to talk about condoms? It’s surprising how often the answer is “no.”
Both men and women know how important condoms are. Being on the Pill will prevent pregnancy, but it won’t prevent the spread of sexually transmitted infections (STIs) like chlamydia or HIV. The only thing that will prevent that – other than abstention – is a condom. So, what do you do if he doesn’t want to discuss it or is arguing against it? Then it’s time for a Condom Negotiation.
Personally, I think there shouldn’t be a negotiation. It’s use one or no sex. Period. but, if you feel you want to take the time to do some persuading, The American Social Health Association has put this Condom Negotiation page for you. Have a look and see if there’s something that may help you.
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