Sexbolt Saturday: What? He’s Faking It? Puh-leeze!
May 31, 2008 by Liberty Kontranowski
Filed under Blogosphere, Depression, Happy Living Tip, Mental Health, Sex, Sexbolt Saturday, Womens Health, Your Body, Your Mind, men's health
Yes, ladies, your man can (and probably does) fake it from time to time.
How do you like them apples?
Shocking, of course. Conventional wisdom says that it’s the ladies who excel at Oscar-worthy fake orgasmic performances, while the boys are genuinely pleasured every time.
But not so, says this article. In fact, due to increased usage in anti-depressants, and other life’s stresses, reaching the Big O can occasionally be elusive for menfolk as well.
The cure? Same things as for the ladies:
1) Have sex only when you want to. Forcing yourself to have sex when you’re not in the mood can make you feel indignant and resentful. It’s not doing your partner any good either, since that feeling of closeness won’t be there if you’re mentally pulling away.
2) Relax. Stressing about erupting your sexual volcano only makes matters worse and the end result harder to achieve. Be in the moment, be present, and pay attention to how great what your partner is doing to you feels.
3) Don’t fake. Hey, sometimes it just ain’t gonna happen. So what? Heavens knows your partner will be good and ready to give you another shot. However, if there’s something in particular that’s keeping you from scaling Mount O, be brave enough to bring it up with your partner. He or she will definitely want to hear what you have to say. Indeed.
Hope this serves in reassuring you that we peeps are just humans. Humans who sometimes reach orgasm, and humans who sometimes don’t. C’est la vie, right? Be we can at least have fun trying.
Enjoy!
