Congratulations! You’ve been in a committed relationship for a while now. That’s great, right? Well, sure. Unless you consider the staleness your sex life seems to have taken on.

Let’s face it folks, after a while, sex with the same person day in and day out can get…monotonous. While this is surely not true for every couple, many couples are looking to heat things up, but are unsure how.

Enter: Sexual Role Playing.

Yes, this takes some effort. Yes, it can be awkward at first. Yes, you run the risk of freaking each other out if you’re not ready to accept or consider your partner’s (or your own) fantasies. But what your relationship has to gain can far outweigh these potential “cons”.

Ready to learn more? There are all kinds of great articles out there that can help the two of you decide if role playing in the bedroom (or elsewhere, wink wink) is right for you. Take a look:

One man recounts having sex with someone new every night. This is a great look into the actual process of role playing and will give you an idea if it’s something you’d like to try.

Once you decide to give it a go, you might want to look at the mechanics of things. The How-To aspect, if you will. This is a great article to explore just that.

And once you’re square in the mechanics department, it’s time to decide which fantasies you’ll act out. From patient/doctor to pizza guy/customer, this article gives you several role-play ideas and tips.

And finally, as you head to the “advanced” level of role playing, you may want to spice things up even further. If you’re looking to add some kinkier elements to your sexual rendezvous, this is the article to check out. Hot stuff!

Great reading today, folks. Just try and get through all this without grabbing your partner and hitting the sheets (or the washer/dryer/yard/pool table/etc).

Enjoy! Here’s wishing you a very sexy Saturday!!

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Since tomorrow marks the famed Mother’s Day, this week’s Sexbolt Saturday is all about satisfying the mommies (and moms-to-be) of the world. So girls, read up, then grab your guy, sit him down, and tell him the biggest gift he could give you for Mom’s Day is to check these links. There’s good stuff in here, y’all. Promise.

Ready for some super female satisfaction? Thought so. Check this link for the best sexual positions for female orgasm.

Does the stress of life leave sex as just another item on your to-do list? Give some of these super-hot relaxation (read: massage and intimacy) tips from the true experts a go.

Trying to conceive? Here’s a group of links covering things from the best baby-dancing positions to timing issues to myths and taboos and more.

Already have a bun in the oven? Congrats! Now here’s how to get it on comfortably and with great results.

And finally, once a Mom has achieved the miracle of giving birth, her sexual needs suddenly change up a bit. Here’s a guy’s-eye view of intimacy in a postpartum world.

So there you have it. Sexy tips for sexy mamas. Enjoy and above all, Happy Mother’s Day!!!

For many of us, it’s been a while since school. But that doesn’t mean we still can’t take quizzes - adult style!

Below, I’ve found some super fun and informative sex quizzes to escalate both your nookie sessions and your sexalicious mojo. Have fun and good luck on your score. Heh.

Quiz 1 - Do you turn guys on? - Ever wondered if you make the other sex sizzle or simmer? Take this quiz to find out.

Quiz 2 - Sex 101 - Think you know everything about the horizontal mambo? Test your knowledge on everything from sexual references in pop culture to the history of the deed.

Quiz 3 - Are you good in bed? - This quiz lets you know just how sassy you really are - not how sassy you think you are.

Quiz 4 - What is your sexual personality? - Are you a Pollyanna in the sack, or would you make the ladies of Girls Gone Wild blush? Take this quiz to find out.

And finallly,

Quiz 5 - The Everything About Sex quiz. This quiz will test your skills on the myths, taboos and bizarre facts surrounding nature’s most fun activity.

See, just like school…only much hotter! Remember to take your findings to class (that would be the boudoir, friends.) Have fun and happy Sexbolt Saturday.

Some great tips on lovin’ for you this weekend, my friends:

Use your hands for more than cleaning and yard work this weekend. Check out these How To Use Your Hand for Your Man’s Pleasure tips and tricks. Since these were written by a woman, be sure to read the comments section below the post to get the guys-eye point of view on a few of them.

Get some awesome intimacy tips from one of the nation’s top authorities on sexual health, Dr. Laura Berman.

Sit down at the ‘puter together for a look at these 10 Fun Facts About Sex. Totally random and totally crazy, these facts are good for a laugh - and are a guaranteed fire-starter!

And finally, if you (or your partner) is ready to shed the Good Girl in Bed image for good, check out the Prude’s Guide to Hotter Sex.

Get busy reading, then shut of the computer and…get busy!!

Happy Saturday! Enjoy!

Another Saturday, another opportunity to share some links for great sex. This week, our focus is on - you guessed it - sex positions!

I am amazed at the plethora of sex position ideas turning up throughout the ‘net. Some of them look killer hot. Some of them left me wondering how the couple could make it through their romp without tearing a ligament. But all are well worth a look, for sure.

The important thing to remember when trying anything new in the sack is to make sure both partners are on board. Sure, it may take your suggestions (or prodding) to get your lovah to consider something new, and that’s totally fine. But forcing, or aggressively coercing, your honey into trying something they are wholly against is never good for your relationship. ‘Nuff said.

So here’s the deal: The links below are fantastic. Definitely DO NOT open them while the kids are around. These are meant for adult eyes only. Take a look at these solo or together with your honey to determine which positions might work well for the two of you. Make a commitment to try one new position a week, but remember it’s perfectly okay to fall back to that “safety” position if things aren’t going as planned. Of course, you’ll definitely want to give the new position the old college try and not give up too fast - otherwise your body may never learn to climax in new ways. Keep your options open.

Okay, enough yapping. Without further adieu:

* Men’s Health has the incredible (and thorough) Sex Position Master. There are categories for “him”, for “her”, “as a couple” and so on. Great feature completely worthy of a bookmark.

* The ever-sexual Cosmopolitan has tweaked 7 sexual positions they claim will guarantee her orgasm every time.

* And finally, if you’re feeling a little extra randy and want to enjoy your car for something other than its built-in seat-warmers, check out these car sex positions. With detailed cartoon illustrations, you’re sure to make your next road trip crazy-memorable.

Enjoy!

You love the feeling of the Big O (duh!), but getting to that point with your partner has become a little, um, lackluster. What was once fun, sexy and hotter than hell has now turned into a ritualistic lead-in to your ho-hum romp sessions.

This doesn’t have to be, people!

The quickest fix for a sexual rut is (no surprise here) to switch things up. Sounds simple, but for couples with kids or hairy schedules, a simple reminder that variety is indeed the spice of life is usually in order. Now, obviously a post-dinner spread on the dining room table may not happen again til all the curtain-climbers check out of Hotel Mom and Dad, but do you have to squroink in the bed every single time? What’s so wrong with the shower? The closet? The dining room after hours? You used to do that stuff in the early days of your relationship, so what’s with the totally predictable glass of wine/back rub/progress to the bed schtick now? Bag it and re-broaden those horizons. You may even find some excitement in “parking with a twist”: heading out to the car after the kids are in bed for a little four-wheeled lovin’. (Just make sure you choose the car without the baby and booster seats - a guaranteed mood killer!)

Seriously, there is really no reason to subject yourselves to snooze-inducing sex, y’all. Switch it up and watch the excitement (and drive. And climaxes. And desire. And even your self-confidence) explode!